Leaving a horrible situation
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I have been going back and forth on whether I was going to speak about this to more than just immediate friends and family. I was more than likely not, but it has been a week since I confronted these two about everything and I have been met with complete silence from one and absolutely no empathy or remorse from the other. So I’m done protecting people.
In September of 2022 I moved to Vermont with my boyfriend Steven, right after finding out I was pregnant, because he got a really good job opportunity and I knew he wanted to take it. We asked my grandpa to borrow $10,000 for the move and Steven promised to pay him back (he has not said a single word about paying him back the whole time after we moved)
Literally the week after we got there, he started expecting me to go down on him every time I wanted to buy something. But whatever, I didn’t think too much of it at the time. It made me feel gross and it hurt but I didn’t think of it as a huge deal. That happened the entire time I was pregnant. He also just started treating me differently in general after we moved. I was alone and pregnant in a completely different state 20+ hours away from everything I’ve known and he could barely treat me decently.
Fast forward to April 2023, our daughter Lydia was born. I could tell something was off because at that point it felt like he was completely emotionless when it came to me. He barely made sure I was okay during/after giving birth and honestly it just felt like he was annoyed all the time. I recently found out why.
He started fucking around with one of his employees when I was still pregnant and got HER pregnant not even a month after Lydia was born. Instead of being home with his brand new baby and his girlfriend (when he was barely home anyways because he has to work A LOT) he was out sleeping with some woman who has 3 other kids and was sleeping with someone else around the same time because Steven didn’t even know if the baby was his or not at first. If that isn’t disgusting enough, he was coming home and forcing me to go down on him or sleep with him because he thinks I owe it to him because he’s financially supporting me.
We had a falling out at the end of May but never technically broke up. I was fighting so hard to keep us together for Lydia and for myself because I truly did love him.
It didn’t take long after that for him to start full on forcing me when I didn’t want to do something when HE wanted to. Literally holding me down, pulling my hair, leaving bruises/cuts on my arms. Putting it in places he knows I hate. Making me bleed. I didn’t even feel like I was fully healed from giving birth yet, I was still pretty sore from my stitches. That started happening in June and he also found out his other bitch was pregnant then.
This whole time I have been dealing with sexual assault and multiple forms of abuse. ALL of it happened in front of our daughter. All while he’s living a whole other life with some whore and his other baby. I found out about the other baby at the end of June this year and have been silently seething for two months until I was finally able to move to Florida with Lydia. We are here in Florida now and neither of us are stepping foot in fuck ass Vermont ever again.
This is only a fraction of the full story and everything I’ve been going through. He’s lucky I haven’t decided to press charges (still debating)
I’m sorry to any of his family who doesn’t already know that you are finding out like this. I never wanted to speak publicly about this because it’s very serious and quite frankly embarrassing for me. But I’m not going to sugarcoat anything or lie about what’s been going on in my life like I have been the past two years. I need to get it off my chest before I explode.
**Please do not feel obligated to donate. I’m asking for money to help get me and Lydia set up with things we need because I still have to depend on him for money**
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Christina Sharp
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Williston, FL