I Never Thought I’d Be the One Asking for Help… But I Am

My name is Otis, but most people call me “O.” I’ve always been the type to handle things on my own. I don’t like asking for help, and I’ve spent most of my life figuring things out no matter how hard it gets.

But right now… I’ve hit a point where I truly can’t do this alone.

I live in California, but I’ve been traveling back and forth between Springfield and St. Louis, Missouri, working and doing everything I can to take care of my kids and keep life moving forward.

Recently, my life took a turn I never expected. While working a gig, my vehicle was caught in the middle of gunfire. My back window was damaged, a scary situation—but I kept going because that’s what I’ve always done.

Then, just a short time later, early morning on April 26th, everything changed again. I was in a car accident that completely totaled my vehicle. I’m grateful to even be here writing this. It easily could have been my life.

I did suffer injuries and, without medical insurance, I’ve had to pay every expense out of pocket. On top of the physical recovery, the financial pressure has been overwhelming.

Now I’m left trying to rebuild from nothing:
• No transportation to get to work
• Medical bills I wasn’t prepared for
• Struggling to maintain stability while recovering
• Trying to still show up for my children through it all

My car wasn’t just a vehicle—it was how I survived. It was how I worked, provided, and kept everything together. Losing it has made everyday life feel like an uphill battle I can’t win alone.

I’m trying to raise $5,000 to help cover:
• Medical expenses
• A reliable vehicle / transportation
• Basic living costs while I recover and get back on my feet

If you’ve read this far, thank you. Truly.

Even if you’re not able to donate, sharing my story means more than you know. And if you are able to help in any way, please know it is not taken lightly—I’m beyond grateful.

I’m just trying to get back on my feet… and take care of my kids and responsibilities.

Thank you for your kindness, your time, and your support during one of the hardest moments of my life. ❤️