I'm a single mom. Been doing it by myself for years I just hit 9 yrs sober from meth after 17 yrs of use and in april I'll have 4 yrs sober from alcohol. I've been at the same job for 9 yrs without missing a day. My daughter is almost 12 I just wanna take her on vacation. I been outta prison/jail most my life I got clean .I'm trying to pay my house off early.  Yes I bought a house after getting sober but I'll be 65 if I pay on time. I would never spend the money to go on vacation by myself. But I know I deserve it.  God bless you!