Those of us who are blessed to know the real "Que" you know that he is usually the giver, so receiving  is overwhelming for him, the questions of "what do you need or what can I do to help?" Is even more overwhelming. If you know Que you also know his family is extremely important to him. If you want to know what you can do, start here. There nothing to little, and they need everything since they are in the restoration phase.