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Bringin Our Son Patrick Home

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I  am updating this page but leaving the first part that we posted in case anyone hasn't read our story. as most of you know now we had a wonderful P.I. Lyle Sherman and his Search and Rescue team who found our son who had died in a terrible car crash just a few short miles from where he was staying with his sister Bobbie Jo. We appreciate all who have helped and donated to us and wanted to let you know it is all going to go to the costs of all the expenses of having him taken care of in Az before we can even bring him home..Transporting him to a Funeral home,crematiom, getting him back home.And then  we can have a service and put him to rest here in his home town. Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of our son, but we must go on to get these things done. Thank you all from the bottom of our hearts for any help you have provided for us.
We are Tom & Diane LaHaie,Our family is desperatly looking for our  son Patrick LaHaie who has went missing 5 days ago. He went to go stay with his sister Bobbie Jo Dillon in Mohave Valley AZ to help her remodle her new place. He had been staying with us this past winter here in our little town of Cheboygan Mi. Doing volunteer work at  local charity cooking and feeding lunch every day at the Lord's Kitchen. He is a true McGuyver kind of guy, who can do just about anything required done. And while i know people are saying well he is a grown man, believe me when I tell you he would not do this to his family, just disappear. We are too close for that to be. 
  While my daughter and her boyfriend were in Calif.(where they had just moved from) he was at the house watching the animals and working on the house. We talked to him around 5;30 his time. Must have talked for an hour or so. He was happy and doing great. 8:30 pm was the last time any of us heard from him. When they got home the gate was unlocked,house unlocked,garage opened and the compressor still on and no Patrick. It was like he went to go somewhere for a few minutes and just disappeard.  No cell ph. service,goes right to voice mail. This man goes NO WHERE without his ph so we know something is very wrong. The police are involved,pinged his ph and that area is the last place he used his phone. We fear he either met with foul play or decided on the spur of the moment to do some off road driving in the desert. He is known to love driving back roads, is a expert driver but the way he left has us wondering what really is going on..We need money to pay the Private Invetigator we have working on this, and money to hire some of the crop duster planes to start a fly over of the area praying we can find him before it is too late.  I need to go there to help his sister in all the things to do to get the police involved,and the hundreds of things that go along with finding a missing person.5 days is a VERY LONG TIME to be in the desert in 100% plus weather..We think his car either quit ,he got in an accident and or hurt and no way to get to us. He is loved by many people, a great man, God fearing and full of love for all. He would NEVER let us not know where he was. Would NEVER let us suffer the fear of not knowing what happened. We are running out of time. You can see the whole story on my facebook page and also my daughter and all our family and friends. 
   PLEASE if it is in your heart any amount will help.. I am 66 and have been disabled for years. My husband is 64 and still is working every day..We just don't have the kind of money it take to do all that is needed.. I will never be able to repay the kindness, even all the prayers and help we are seeing on Face book is overwhelming.
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