Please help my friend get married

I am from Rockland County. I am 36.
I am getting married mid-July.  I lost my mother 2 years ago and my father has been having financial difficulties and cannot help me. We have been going through very difficult times.
My friends are trying to raise money not only for my wedding but to start up my life with my husband.
We would appreciate some help from whoever can help.
This would mean so much to me to finally have a glimpse of happiness in my life.