Our son -life support in California

Our son was recently admitted into ICU and is on life support. He has a serious infection and is "lucky" to be alive. I live in Minnesota and my son is in California. I am unable to afford to go see him. We need money for a plane ticket, rental car, hotel expenses, getting his car out of the pound, food, etc...Mainly we want to be there for our son when he wakes up. We are desperate for your support. Thank you!