Please Help My Daughter and Read my story - dad

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Hello, I am Edward Desenti and my wife is Debbie. We have a beautiful daughter who is turning just 41 on September 26th. She is our baby and only child. Recently last August my daughter went to the ER thinking she had the flu. When they looked at her and how pale and weak she was they rushed her to a room in the ER. Now I am 72 years old and I have a lot of health problems. When I received that call from my daughter and she told me her red blood count was at a  3, I cried because that is a blood level of the walking dead. My daughter passed out on the table that day in august 2019 and almost didn't make it. They admitted her into Midstate hospital to find out she was bleeding from her liver really bad and needed to have several blood transfusions. She ended up finding out she had cirrhosis of the liver and my daughter doesn't drink at all. She somehow got Hemp C and must have had it for a long time and that caused the damage to the liver. She did get rid of the Hemp C but her liver never recovered.  After that everything went downhill. She got diagnosed with diverticulitis after that. Then my poor baby had to have 15 blood transfusions and 13 endoscopies where they banded arties to stop her bleeding liver. Over time she then got an infection in her finger and because the doctor took too long to see her she ended up getting half her finger removed. She went through a lot with that too. Cause it got infected with osteoporosis and she stayed in Midstate hospital for 2 weeks then Motowese rehab center for 2 more weeks on strong antibiotics. She was missing so much work. She had no income to pay her bills. My daughter been independent and paying her bills on her own since 16 even living at home. But she had her own place now and she no money and that was an issue. As of September of 2020 on this day my daughter again lies in the hospital to get another endoscopy and another blood transfusions. The illness my daughter has will never be cured. She even lost a lot of her hair and 120lbs being sick and she feels so uncomfortable. She asks me, dad am I still pretty! I tell her yes dear no matter what you will always be pretty. So I ask this from a father to another father. A daughter or son or mother to mother can you please find it in your hearts to help my daughter with a small contribution. She can't ever work again and makes not enough to survive right now. I hate to ask for favors. I am a retired Vietnam Vet which I was proud to survive. So now I am asking for your service in return. My daughter is my best friend. So do please feel free to help her with a donation. I am blessed and thank you ahead of time. God bless America and God bless your family as well! Update on Rebecca: 9/25 Rebecca ended up in the ER at midstate again because she kept passing out and throwing up blood at home. Her boyfriend called 911 cause at one point she didnt wake up. He got her awake and ambulance came took her to hospital. Her GI doctor decided to send her to Yale for a surgery called TIPS. It helps with the blood flow to her liver. So she went on the 25th there from midstate. And they took her to ICU she remained in ICU the next day which was the 26th of September and Rebecca's 41st bday. Rebecca was heartbroken she was alone again on her bday and now in a different hospital she knew no one. But she knew this surgery needed to be done. Then the nightmare started. All her Doctors were nice but there were so many she didn't know who she was dealing with at times. So I am going just push forward alot. The 28th Rebecca went for ultrasound but this was different because they put some solution into her IV and she got a allergic reaction and her whole body was paralyzed for 15 mins. The only thing she felt was someone stabbing her the lower back. The nurse was very nice and rubbed my back as a breathed for 15 mins until it slowed down. Then she finally was going for her surgery. She went to this freezing room and there were 10 people there. The didn't put Rebecca to sleep which was odd since it was about a 3 hr surgery and they were going threw her neck with a long needle. She was scared out of her mind. She the nurse he keep feeding me fetnyal in my IV so i did sleep like that but it was wearing off and Rebecca was waking up. The was yelling put more meds in her IV i am not done but unfortunately the nurse said they can't go anymore over the limit. so she woke up freaking out she now felt the needle in her neck and saw she was belted down. they stopped. rebecca came bk the following Monday they finished but left her in recovery for 8 hrs my parents and my man couldn't find me. my dad drove to yale finally found me. and took me to my aunts where i stayed for a few days cause she has no stairs. Now rebecca bk at hospital going home today cause she threw up blood again but after this procedure hopefully things will get better cause to be honest this is tearing her apart. ty all again for your donations. It helped alot and if you can hel

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