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Aggressive Stage 3 DLBCL & Fallout Has Us Spent.

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I need your help because I am in over my head and have nowhere else to go   . I have  spent the last 30 years of my life working to get to a place that I didn't  have to worry about being homeless and now it's my biggest fear . I grew up In Catholic Children's Aide  and have had to fight for everything and now I see everything is slipping away . I am not done fighting as it's not who I am, but neither is asking for help. But here I am asking for the privilege's of peace of mind to save not only my life but the future of our home and the opportunity to enjoy my husband.  He is my only rock and biggest supporter, but he is only one person . 


My name is Toni-Michelle Benteau, my husband is Scott, and we are sharing our story with you in the hopes of finding a Christmas miracle this holiday season. I am grateful for your kindness in reading this and I hope you can connect to something in our experience.

 While feeling like I have spent the last three years running against the wind, I am mentality and physically exhausted, financially drained and maxed across the board. I am terrified at the reality that I can’t afford to live and I can’t afford to die so at this point I need a Christmas miracle and a new year assist  for the win .  



While dealing with one type of Stage3 Skin cancer Diagnosed in 2018, I was diagnosed with second and far more aggressive Stage 3 Cancer called diffuse large b-cell lymphoma at the end of May 2020.  While coming out of my surgery in early march 2020 for skin cancer treatment I suffered a brain episode and never really felt like myself since.

2020 was warming up at this point because no one knew about the Non-Hodgkin’s that represented in 3 locations and had developed in to 4 clusters of tumors.  I’m now facing another surgery this time in the colon this coming January 05 2021. Between the multiple surgeries, treatments, doctor appointments and COVID’s economic impacts our finances are stretched beyond our means.

All my life I’ve worked diligently to support myself and be financially independent. We currently live in Alberta, and I grew up in Windsor, Ontario. I grew up in children’s aid and worked hard to pay for my own education and expenses. I have run a successful company, and I have always helped others when I’ve had extra in my pocket. I have had the privilege to help family, friends and co-workers over the years with supporting their needs, their crises, and their dreams. It’s incredibly difficult to reach out and ask others for help, when I’ve always been committed to my own independence.

I own a small business that has been greatly impacted by these recent cancer surgeries & treatments , my inability to work, and I do not qualify for any of the current business supports available. Having just finished six rounds of chemotherapy   R-CHOP6 .



I do not have the ability to work at the moment until my body can heal. Side effects I’m trying to cope with from the chemotherapy include brain fog, finger and foot numbness, hair loss, loss of taste and smell, bone and nerve pain &  over all and in general I feel miserable in my skin. My husband works a full-time job, and his wage has recently been cut due to the challenges in the economy.  He is currently the only financial support for our family, and our bills are no longer manageable.

 Our family includes four beautiful dogs that we acquired years ago from rescue societies. We have financially supported these rescue groups over the years, as we’re passionate about supporting animals. Each of these dogs has health challenges that we have managed over the years, and though we would not change this for the world as they are our family, this adds to our current financial challenges.


 We don’t have family here in Alberta, and our supports are limited. I have another two years of surgeries and treatments ahead  and doctors appointments. Struggling to pay our regular bills also means not being able to afford to purchase the special foods that are recommended to help my body heal. 

We are truly hoping for the best but feel  we should be prepared for the worst . There are still many unknowns with the  financial burdens  overwhelming  us. I can't do anything about the out come but I would very much like to try .

We understand that everyone has expenses, and we don’t expect anyone to help beyond their means. Our hope is that our story will reach enough people, as even a small donation will make a difference. We are incredibly grateful for anything you are able to contribute, and we wish you a blessed and safe holiday.


Please help me help lift my burden of crazy cancer cost off my husband and show him we will be ok .  So I can be ok . 

If you are on Facebook we have a page to follow our story it is called "Our Six Days & Everything In-between". Also thank you for reading our story share it if you can.   Scott and myself would be grateful as dealing with cancer and a pandemic has taken this year and rocked us to our foundation . 
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