
Help me get my husband home
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My husband is 28 years old and has had medical problems for some years now; severe anxiety epilepsy and liver problems along with more than I can even remember high blood pressure low potassium low white blood counts.. my husband and I met in 2014 he had epilepsy than but it seemed to be under control he didn’t have a seizure until almost 2 years into our marriage which the first one he had sense we were together was at work he fell and seized and they had to call the ambulance hit his head etc. after that things progressively got worse and worse he was on FMLA and got deemed he couldn’t go back shortly after he had his second seizure while driving thank god he was able to pull over and I was able to put the car in park and call the ambulance sense than his health has just taken a turn for the worse every time something is wrong it’s not just a little it’s 10x more things at a time.
Long story short my husband went to the hospital 6 weeks ago his liver was enlarged and his gallbladder had an issue they weren’t giving him his anxiety medication anymore so decided to sign himself our sense he’s prescribed them at home he thought he could handle it himself if they didn’t think there wasn’t anything they could do.. at first we all thought things were getting better he rarely left the house he went to lunch with family went to an appt that he usually has to be forced to go to. Well that lasted about a week and things got bad FAST every day when I came home from work I couldn’t breathe I was so scared I was going to come home and find my husband dead his whole body was yellow his eyes his fingers his stomache feet his scalp his whole body was so jaundice it took almost a week of convincing him something was wrong so finally he decided to go to the quickest nearest ER (frisbee) next Wednesday will be FOUR weeks sense he’s been in there they diagnosed him with liver failure but sense his liver was so severely shut down and failed it’s making the rest of his body do the same and his kidneys can’t see him making any blood not even 24 hours after being there they started him on immediate dialysis through a port on his kneck which is usually 3-4 times a week this one was for almost 72 hours straight and it’s usually for people for are in comas in life support or can’t move not some one being able to move around so fast forward 4 weeks he’s still not out of the woods but he’s near the line of the open trail and I don’t know what to do so I’m asking for some help my husband got disability so his Medicaid got shut off and he can not receive Medicare for 48 months after being approved so until he gets insurance he has to stay in the hospital I am out of work with a 4 year old trying to do the very best I can do to answer and try to process everything going on. The insurance there helping with us APTD and can take up to 90 DAYS to get an answer that doesn’t even mean yes.
I’m at my breaking point it’s already been a month and I feel like my husbands faith isn’t there anymore and that’s the last thing I want him to loose if anyone could help donate so we could even pay for an insurance until it activates or until we can figure out a situation as I said I’m out of work it’s hard enough not working taking care of a child at home but having your husbands life in your hands and you don’t know what to do or say is absolutely heartbreaking I know I have so many amazing friends co workers family please pull together especially during this extremely hard time we’re not even able to visit ☀️
Organizer
Danielle Carter
Organizer
Rochester, NH