I Need To Escape

I need to escape my toxic household. I am a 25-year-old man, living with my family. My stepfather is emotionally abusive, incredibly controlling, and refuses to treat me as an adult. My younger brother is temperamental and confrontational, and treats everyone like trash. My mother has access to my finances, tracks all of my purchases, and can easily transfer money to accounts I can’t access. I have been gaslit, ignored, disrespected, excessively restricted, and given unhealthy perspectives on the world and myself. I need to find an apartment and get out of here. I don’t know if I can afford one with my current income, especially with monthly car payments and my fifty-mile commute to work. I need help, and I don’t have anywhere to turn.