Owen's Donor Search

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[UPDATE: We have closed donations because we have raised more money to cover commercial lab tests than we have people taking the tests. Thank you so much for your generosity. We are still spreading the word to encourage as many people as possible to join bone marrow registries or --- if they can't or don't want to --- to be tested privately for Owen.]


In early April, Owen was diagnosed with severe aplastic anemia. It is a rare disease in which the bone marrow stops making enough blood cells: red blood cells that carry oxygen throughout the body, white blood cells that fight infection and platelets that help stop bleeding. The only guaranteed, permanent way to fix this condition is a bone marrow transplant.

We are searching for a bone marrow donor who is a perfect match for Owen. Genetics and ethnicity play a role in who might be a match. Unfortunately, only 4% of the 12.5 million people registered in the National Bone Marrow Donor Program are (like Owen) categorized as mixed race.


Owen is a very clever, beautiful six year-old obsessed with dinosaurs and soccer (Tottenham is his team). Some days he wants to be a paleontologist; other days, he wants to be the next Christiano Ronaldo or Harry Kane. During multiple hospital stays in recent months, Owen learned chess and Scrabble. He's been trouncing his family at both. He is observant, sensitive and shy---though he's been surprisingly the extrovert with the nurses, doctors and child life specialists he's charmed at Newark Beth Israel these past few months.

Owen lives with his family in New Jersey. He's son to Dakashna, an 8th grade English literature teacher, and Matthew, a network systems engineer. And he's big brother to a 2-year old who shadows his every gesture and his every mischief. We call the two of them Hurricane and Tornado.


We are pursuing a treatment that suppresses the immune system in an effort to help the bone marrow recover its purpose. We are hopeful this will work. It does in 60-70 percent of cases. We're two months into the treatment and should know by late September if it's helping Owen produce blood cells.

If this immunosuppressive therapy doesn't work, he will need to have a bone marrow transplant.


We've been advised to start looking for a bone marrow donor now. It takes about four weeks for someone who registers with the National Bone Marrow Donor Program to enter the database and show up in searches by transplant centers.

Markers in our genes (human leukocyte antigen or HLA markers inherited from each parent) determine who is a good match for a bone marrow transplant. They determine what the body reads as foreign to it and might, as a result, attack. We are looking for donors who match all of Owen's HLA markers. This will reduce some of the risks of a transplant.

Anyone might be a match but it's more likely that someone multiracial will be the match for Owen. It's harder to find a match for multiracial people; along with South Asians, Asian-Americans and African-Americans, people from multiple ethnic backgrounds aren’t well represented in the national and international donor registries. We are reaching out to all groups of people, but also trying to recruit potential donors who are South Asian, Caribbean or come from a multiracial background. Owen is half white (with roots in England, Wales and Germany) and half South Asian Caribbean (with roots in Guyana).

Our goal is to increase the number of people on the national and international registries who might be a perfect match for Owen by the time we next meet the transplant doctor, in late September 2017.


(1) Register for the National Bone Marrow Donor Program. The preferred age range for the registry is 18-44, though they will accept donors up to the age of 60.

Joining the registry involves a cheek swab (either at a community drive or through a kit-by-mail). This genetic test is free if you're 18-44. By registering, you are saying that you'd be willing to be a donor for anyone you might match who needs it.

To find out what drives might be happening in your local area, follow this link. To send away for a swab kit, follow this link

If you're in the UK and want to join the registry there, follow this link for more information. Our doctor will search international databases as well. Other countries have their own registries, and if you'd like help finding one where you are, we can help you do that.

(2) If you can't or don't want to join a national registry, but would instead like to be tested to see if you're a match for Owen, there is a commercial lab test available. You can send away for a swab kit by following this link. The test costs $195 if you're in the US and more if you're outside.

We will pay that cost for you. 

If you're interested in taking the private test, please let us know so that we can get you the information you'll need on the transplant center and transplant doctor as well as reimburse you for the test.

(3) Share this appeal widely. Also, please share with networks that include Caribbeans, South Asians, Brits or multiracial people. Please ask people to consider either joining the registry or being tested as a potential match for Owen.


If you have questions, please contact Owen's aunt Gaiutra through the message icon to the right. We've also started a CaringBridge page to keep family and friends updated on Owen's progress. If you'd like to be added to it, please let Gaiutra know.

The Web sites of the Aplastic Anemia and MDS International Foundation and Be the Match provide excellent information about Owen's condition and the donation process. Please check them out.

If you'd like to find out more about the challenges multiracial people face in finding a bone marrow or stem cell donor, this article in the Washington Post explains the problem. The film Mixed Match also lays out the issue.
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Dear all,
Today seems the right day to express our gratitude for all the various kinds of support and love you showed Owen in the last half year. Thank you to the 14 people who tested to see if you might be a bone marrow match for Owen. Thank you to everyone who helped us conduct community drives to register bone marrow donors. Thank you to everyone who registered. Thank you to everyone who contributed so generously to the fund to test donors. Thank you to everyone who helped us through a very difficult time with your friendship and concern. We are profoundly grateful that Owen seems to be responding to the treatment he's receiving. His blood and platelet counts are slowly and steadily increasing, and he's in school, enjoying all the things that little boys in first grade get to enjoy. And we are hopeful.
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Dear all,
Owen started first grade this week, half days, and it's making him happy. August was a good month for him and for all of us. He did not spend a single night in the hospital and his blood counts are stable or improving. Our fingers are crossed, and we're knocking wood, and saying prayers and enjoying his company.
We won't know until the end of November if his treatment is working and if a bone marrow transplant will become necessary. We started this effort proactively to find a perfect match donor in case doctors do think we should do the transplant.
Since posting this campaign, 17 multiracial people --- 8 of them family --- have stepped up to be privately tested. The results for nine tests produced no matches. We're waiting on the rest to test or for their results to come back.
We also conducted a drive for the National Bone Marrow Program in Queens and registered 13 people. There will be two more drives in the next week or so, in New Jersey, and we really encourage people to join the registry if they're 18-44, morally committed to donate to anyone they might match and in good health.
Thanks again for the concern and support you've shown Owen and our entire family. I'll keep you updated as things progress.
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Dear all,
Our deep gratitude again for the outpouring of concern and love for Owen. Within a week of first posting this page, we received roughly $7000 in contributions, way more than we asked for and enough to pay for 33 HLA marker tests through a commercial lab. I'm talking to 15 people about taking the private test. Some already sent back their swab kits. Some came to us because of this appeal page. More may come to us, and hopefully many many more will join national registries wherever they are. Our goal is to get a whole lot of people who are multiracial, Caribbean or South Asian to join the registries. This may help Owen. Or it may help someone else. If this appeal happens to help others from underrepresented groups find a bone marrow match, that would make us happy. It's very unlikely that any one person would be a match for any other person. Any individual test is kind of like buying a lottery ticket. So, the key is volume, to just get as many people as humanly possible who might be matches for Owen to register. With thanks,
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