Please help

I've been humbled enough to know I can't do this alone. I had hip surgery in September, went back to work for 3 weeks and filed again for disability. So far, nothing has come through. Aflac has denied my claim, which would have been $2000. Now my bank account in negative because I have nothing coming in. State disability is taking their dear sweet time, and hasn't paid me yet. So, everything that bounces, has a fee attached to it. I'm on disability another 2-3 months, because of my knee replacement, and have no idea how I'll buy food, pay bills and the late fees. At least I will have food for my cats. Plus my truck needs work because it uses a qt of oil a day!!I've never been in a position like this before, in my life. I've always been the one helping others. Now it's killing me to ask for help...Please help.