Chuck Benders Funeral/Memorial

My father, a great man of 5 children, 2 Grandchildren and a Fiancee unexpectedly passed away peacefully in his sleep on June 22, 2018. He was born In Kassel Germany on June 17, 1957. He was a peaceful caring man who only wanted the best for everyone. He gave every ounce of himself to everyone he cared about and always put everyone else's needs before himself. He was a man of great passion and put his whole heart into everything he did, especially his work. He had a great sense of humor and one of the kindest hearts I've ever witnessed, He taught me what it was to truly be a man.  A man who cares for others first, who doesn't judge, who laughs, loves and treats everyone equally. He wanted only peace for everyone and taught me everything I know and if I become half the man he was I would truly be lucky. He was all of our best friends and our confidant. My sisters, and brother and I are trying to raise money for the memorial he deserves, one of dignity and respect. He deserves to be remembered and those who loved him  also deserve an opportunity to say goodbye. The total go fund me is the exact cost of the service,  the plot of land and everything that comes with it. We ask in lieu of flowers or other gifts that anyone who can donate do so. Anything helps regardless of the amount. R.I.P. Charles Andreas Bender we all miss you and love you and you will never be forgotten. His legacy left behind is his Fiancee Holly Light, His five children, Carl Anthony Bender, Dominique June Bender,  Charles Loren Bender, Lora Mars Bender, and Crystal Alexandra Bender, and his grandchildren Ashlynn Grace Gecsey, and Alexandra Renee Palmer.
                                                             Psalm 23
The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.  He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. Even though I walk
 through the darkest valley,I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life,and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Anyone with questions or concerns or who want to do personal donations  may contact me Charles Bender at [phone redacted]  and I will answer any and all questions.