Ashlyn Byers Memorial Fund
No one ever tells you that the hardest part of motherhood...is when your kids grow up. It's not when they have boo-boos or when they're sick...or when they have their first heartbreak. It's in that moment when it sinks in...that my baby girl is not a baby girl anymore. And when I found out that Ashlyn was having a baby...I knew my baby girl was all grown up. She was about to embark on the same journey that I did at her age. As a young parent, I may have met her a little early...but that also meant that I got to love her a little longer.
But unfortunately, God had different plans for my baby girl. Because late last night I lost Ashlyn in a tragic car accident. The doctors did everything they could to try and save her but God chose to take her home. And by His grace, the doctors were able to save my granddaughter, Sally Rose. But she is still in critical condition and needs all the love and prayers she can get.
My heart is breaking and my soul hurts like it never has before. No parent should ever have to bury their child before themselves. It’s just not natural. Please know I am not asking for any handouts. I am only asking if you feel it in your heart to donate, to please give any small amount, to help us with medical and funeral expenses.
I want to thank all of those who have called and sent messages. We can definitely feel your love and prayers! And please keep them coming..because my family needs them…and I need them today and for many days to come.
Much love and peace,
Mama loves you baby girl...always and forever...
As a single dad, he has a long road ahead of him. And I will be there every step of the way to help in any way I can. Sally is all I have left of my daughter. I will do everything I can to make sure she gets what she needs. Sally will know just how much her momma loved her and what a beautiful person she was.
To everyone that has donated, please know that after all medical and/or funeral expenses are taken care of, the leftover money will be given to Sally's father to help with anything he needs for Sally.
I want to personally thank everyone that has donated and reached out to me. Your love and kindness means so much to me during this difficult time. Never in a million years did I think I would have to bury my daughter at the age of 20. I keep hoping this is all a dream...but the emptiness I feel tells me that it's not. I would give anything to hear her voice again...to see her beautiful smile...to hear her excitement of being a mother. I don't know if I'll ever understand why she was taken...but I can promise her this. I will honor her and keep her memory alive. Sally will know how much Ashlyn loved her and what a beautiful person she was. I will do whatever I can to help Sally's dad in taking care of her and raising her. It is what my daughter would have wanted.
I love you baby girl...
I have had several people ask me about services for Ashlyn. Unfortunately, due to the circumstances of the car accident, she has not been released yet from the medical examiner. I will let everyone know as soon as we have arrangements made. The love and support that I have received from everyone is truly overwhelming. Your messages have given me comfort in a time when I need it the most. There are no words for me to express just how much it means to me.
I've been through a lot in my lifetime but nothing will ever compare to this heartache that I feel. It is hard for me to comprehend that I will never again hear Ashlyn's voice, or be able to hug her, or tell her I love you. Or create lifelong memories with her and Sally. It breaks my heart that she never got a chance to see Sally or hold her before she left this world. To make a decision of which clothes to bury my daughter in is just unbearable. It just isn't natural to bury my child before myself. Please continue to keep Sally, her dad, my family and myself in your prayers for the days ahead. It's going to be long, tough road...but the love everyone has been sending sure makes it a little easier...
I know nothing I say can take away the pain you and your family must be experiencing. I have done nothing but thought about your daughter and her baby. I was in the car next to them when this all happened. We jumped out and my brother ran over there to help them and ended up giving them his shirt off his back to help with her broken wrist. When he ran back over to our side and I found out she was pregnant, I just lost it. I didn't know you from Adam, but Seeing her laying there and everyone doing everything they could just broke my heart. I know y'all left an impression on my brother and our lives and I will continue to pray for you and your family.
My heart hurts for you momma. Just know that your baby girl it's in a better place and that your angel that you have here on earth will give you the strength to go on. Please know that I will be praying for you, your baby girl and your angel that it's here with you.
I'm so sorry for.your lose.. She was a great young lady ... Shell always be on my mind ... If we can help in any way let us know..
We never know why God plans these things as he does but all we can do is believe in him & that he knows what he is doing. I couldn't imagine losing 1 of my children he may have took the love of your life or who you thought was. He knew what he was doing because honey he left you that sweet grandaughter & I promise you from experience you have really truly just met the love of your life there is no love like you are fixing to learn & feel from that sweet baby. My oldest grandaughter is in profile pic her name is Braelei she's 5 & God as my witness she is my love my pride & joy I never knew that I had or could feel the love & happiness I have since we were blessed with her she will make your broken heart mend easier. Never will be whole with Ashlyn gone but promise that lil girl will almost make it feel that way. Your family is on our church prayer list. Prayers for strength & healing.
My heart breaks for you but God gave you your granddaughter. I cried reading this as I couldn't imagine the pain you're going through . God bless and prayers
Is baby doin ok
Is Sally gonna go up for adoption just wondering I feel bad for Sally and Her dad I'm so sorry I lost my son but from a different situation but my prayers to y'all when y'all go through terrible situation I'm sorry for y'all loss
Oh Tonia I wish I could give you a big old hug right now and never let go. Ashlyn and you have been though so much together, and that is just it together. I will never understand why things like this happen. I guess we are not suppose to. Sally is beautiful and I am praying for you all. I know nothing I say will take away you hurt but please know that I love you so much I will continue to pray for you guys. Please keep us updated on Sally. Much love God speed.
May Gods comfort and peace wrap his loving arms around you at this most difficult time. My prayers to you and the family.
Tonia I am so very sorry. My thoughts are with you.
Please know I am praying. I cannot imagine. I know that your daughter meant the world to you! You know I have a daughter and a son and my heart is hurting for you right now. Please know that the miles don't mean a thing! Let me know if you need anything. I love you and your family and I am calling on many prayer warriors to surround you with angels right now❤️