Help Ray Beat Cancer / ACC !!

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In 07/2008, two months before our wedding, my husband, Ray Welch (now 32) was diagnosed with Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma. This is a rare, relentless salivary gland cancer. There is no approved therapy/treatment for this type of cancer as it does not react well to any standard form of treatment. Being a rare cancer, it is not funded by the American Cancer Society and as my husband's treatment is not an FDA approved ACC treatment, rather an exact targeted therapy for his gene mutation, most cancer organizations will not provide assistance.

His initial surgery was two days after our wedding and was about 13 hours. He had a major reconstructive surgery of his jaw. He has now been battling this disease for 5 years. He had clear margins for the first two years after that initial surgery and radiation treatment. Right around that two year mark, we were told the cancer spread to his lungs and there was a spot around his collar bone (which he had surgically removed). We tried radiation and chemo; however, it did not work. At that point, it was a waiting game. The spots were still small, so we just monitored it.

We have now been advised that the cancer has spread to his rib cage as well as some to some lymph nodes around the liver area. Ray has been very strong through this entire process; however, one of his tumors has started to eat through one if his ribs causing him to be in extreme pain.

About two months ago Ray had his tumor profiled and was advised that he has two matched therapies available to him! This is wonderful; however, for two months we have been battling with the insurance company to get the treatment approved! The drug retails at $8,500/month! He will be on this treatment until it stops working. The tumor profiling alone was $5,800 and only a small portion of that has been covered by insurance so far.

We are still battling very hard to get insurance to cover this drug, but in the meantime, he is missing opportunities to play with his children and to enjoy every day life because of the pain he is in. At this point, we're just looking for any help for him to be able to continue on this drug during the appeal process.

The sad reality is, once this drug stops working, he'll need his tumor profiled again and we will start this process all over. This will be a never ending battle and the thought of an insurance company being the reason he will not get a drug that could save his life is unfair.

This treatment alone is $100,000 per year if we have to pay out of pocket. We're willing to accept anything and even $1 will help. We have never wanted to ask for help, but it's worth it at this point if it will save his life.

To all that donate; his children (Raegan (3) and Nick (5 months), wife Jen, and our entire families cannot thank you enough for believing that his life is worth saving!


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Update: Now that this has gone far beyond our immediate friends and family, which I really never expected, I wanted to share a little more insight. Our family and friends know us, know our struggles, and have been with us through this entire process, so we stuck with the facts. Below is our entire story, for those who don't personally know us:



One day my fiance at the time, Ray, was at work. Something made him pick up the news paper that day. He decided to read the health section and there was an article about Oral Cancer. I got a frantic call at work and all I heard was, "I think I have cancer". We immediately scheduled an appointment with the dentist. He in-fact did have a mass in his mouth, where his wisdom teeth once were. They did a biopsy and we were given the diagnosis of Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma. At that time, the dentist said, "oh, it's okay. he'll have some skin removed and he'll be fine". We went on with daily life like nothing ever happened. Okay, he's got cancer, but he'll be cured of it here shortly....little did we know.....


We went to the specialist which we were referred to and were advised that it was a much different situation entirely. We were advised that he would need to have a portion of his jaw removed and replaced with part of his leg bone. This surgery was to be done immediately after our already scheduled wedding; therefore, we were blessed with an 8-day $400,000 honeymoon courtesy of our insurance company and the wonderful staff at University Hospitals. I did not leave his side. He had about a three month full recovery from that. At that point he ended up cancer free for about 2 years. In that time frame, we were blessed with a beautiful baby girl, Raegan!



Soon after she was born, we were advised that the cancer had returned and spread. He now had a spot under his collarbone and in his lungs. He went in to have the spot in the collarbone removed and a biopsy of the lungs. Indeed, the ACC had returned. He did radiation and chemotherapy; however, unfortunately, neither worked. The spots were small, so we just monitored them.



In the meantime, we were blessed with our baby boy, Nick. We went into the doctor's office after his follow up scan, while holding our two week old baby, we were told that it has spread, yet again. Treatment needed to begin.



We were told to try a clinical trial; however, he was denied from that as he did not have the right gene mutation. It took them two months to tell us he was denied. I decided I wanted them to profile his tumor. About a week later they sent it out for profiling. We were told there were two matched therapies, which is amazing!! This could be what saves his life; however, now his insurance company is standing in the way of him being guaranteed this drug. it has been denied and is now going through the appeals process; however, we have been working on that process for well over a month now. When we were told treatment needed to begin, he was not in pain; however, with all of the delays from the university conducting the clinical trial, delays from the doctor's office getting us results, and now the insurance company dragging their feet, one of his tumors has started to eat through his rib. He is in terrible pain.



He went from being an avid weight lifter, a very active individual, and a very involved father, to being someone who can hardly get around, can no longer play with his children, and cannot go one minute without being in pain. He has never smoked, done drugs, and has hardly ever even had a drink. It is unfair that an insurance agency can take someone's life away like this! He deserves to have the best chance at living a long, healthy life and I will do EVERYTHING in my power to give that to him.

He has worked through all of this, and many times putting in extra hours at work. He has been doing everything in his power to lead a normal life while beating this horrible disease!

We have now decided to take matters into our own hands. He will get that drug! We have graciously been given a donation to start the first two months of treatment, but these costs will continue to build. The unfortunate part is this is a cycle and once this drug stops working, we're going to be back in this same spot. Any donation you can provide, even $1 would be such a great help to keep Ray's fight going!



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Okay, so Ray wanted to wait until the situation was resolved a bit before posting this. We had a bit of a hiccup in starting the clinical trial. A few of weeks ago Ray started experiencing blurred vision. We took him to the eye doctor and found out that he actually has three very small tumors in his eyes. Two in the right and one in the left. From there, they decided to do a brain scan, which led us to finding out that there are actually 5 very small tumors in the brain as well. He is currently undergoing radiation treatment and will be done with that next Tuesday. The doctors really seem to be hopeful about the radiation working. Two weeks later, November 5th, the clinical trial begins! He is starting to feel a little better and the vision has slightly improved. We are still hopeful that this trial is the answer and we will keep you updated along the way.
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I know it has been awhile since I have posted and everyone is anxious about the clinical trial results. Unfortunately we are still waiting. That seems to be the name of the game with us. This time it still does seem very, very hopeful that he will be accepted. We are just a hairline away...one little piece to the puzzle and we are in! I will update you as soon as we hear either way! The fact that so many people have asked where we stand really shows us how many people are so deeply invested in his well-being and that means the world to us! In the meantime, we continue to buy the medication and even if he is accepted, we face the cost of travel to and from NY 6 times in the first 2 months and monthly from there on out. A local, award winning quilt artist has graciously donated a quilt that she handmade that is being auctioned on ebay to raise donations. If you are interested or know of anyone who is interested, here is the link!! http://www.ebay.com/itm/Handmade-Patchwork-Wall-Hanging-Lap-Throw-Art-Quilt-55-1-2-X-55-1-2-/161411800073?ssPageName=STRK:MESE:IT
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I want to send a HUGE THANK YOU to Corporate Angel Networks!! They have found a corporation that is willing to allow Ray and I to travel along on their business flight to and from NY! We will be getting a free flight through them to attend Ray's clinical trial consultation! Wednesday is going to be a long day, but I hope we can share good news when we return!!
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I am well overdue for another update!! Our fundraising efforts have continued. We have heard that some individuals pretty high up in GSK, the manufacturer), are going to be in contact with Ray's doctor, so who knows where that may lead. The best news as of late is that we will be traveling to New York to meet with a doctor about a clinical trial! It is not for the same drug, but one that is very similar. We will have more information about that Wednesday! If he is accepted, he would get that drug; however, he would be traveling back and forth to New York very frequently. The good thing is, if this drug does not work, we would still have the Votrient to fall back on. We will keep you informed and once again, thank you so incredibly much for the continued support!!
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Jaimie Johnson
54 months ago

Thank you to anyone who has donated to my brother in law and my sister, it means so much to all of us, your generosity has been amazing!thank you all so much!

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Richelle Kemnow
60 months ago

I may not be able to donate more than my prayers for Ray, as I live on disability. I wish you all much success in the endeavors to get insurance coverage for this medication. I will share your petition on my Facebook page. May our Most Merciful Father watch over and protect your family. Shelly Ann LPN (ret), A Proud Honorable Disabled American Veteran, 1970-94

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Giovanna Ghafoori
60 months ago

Depending on how the employer set up the insurance plan,you still have some appeal rights and remedies. If the insurance plan is a regular, employer-sponsored plan, contact your state Insurance Commissioner and file a complaint and request yet another independent review by a board-certified oncologist. If the employer is "self-funded," then the insurance plan will be ERISA-protected and under federal jurisdiction. Federal is much more onerous, but in the end, may afford more options. (U.S. Department of Labor Employee Benefits Security Administration 2300 Main St., Suite 1100 Kansas City, MO 64108 (816) 285-1800). Your state Insurance Commissioner will be able to tell you what plan you have. Hopefully your oncologist has written a strong Letter of Medical Necessity on Ray's behalf. If not, you really need that!

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Jess Noonan
60 months ago

Have you tried rxassist.org?

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Alejandra Pena
61 months ago

Research "Gerson Therapy"

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Beverly Woods
61 months ago

Oh wow... I just signed and didn't realize I was tearing up while reading the whole thing. Good luck in your fight.

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Sharon Hughes
61 months ago

I just signed your petition and will try to spread the word to friends and family. May you win this battle and receive the care you need!

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Enilda Pérez
61 months ago

I just signed your petition. I can only imagine what you're going through, but I see that you are a very strong woman and I applaud your husband for not giving up and leading a normal life even though he's battling this terrible disease. Also, I'm going to have to agree with Kimberleigh Finnegan. I live in an island and I have heard wonderful things about moringa and soursop tea. Also, you should watch Food Matters, read Clean by Dr. Alejandro Junger and do some research about the Gerson Therapy. Please, do it!!! I don't recommend getting your husband off his meds, but it's worth looking into. We usually recur to traditional medicine to treat everything, but nature is equipped with everything we need. I wish the best to your husband and your family and I pray God gives you strength and healing. God bless you!

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Sue Beck Esopo
61 months ago

I've signed your petition at change.org and shared it with my facebook friends.I am praying that CVS Caremark will do the right thing and allow the drugs needed to be covered.Hang in there!People care.

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Kim Norviel
61 months ago

I too have CVS Caremark insurance and have been denied coverage of my "off-label" medication even though it substantially improves my quality of life. I hope that these petitions & fundraiser are able to help you & your family shine a light on insurance company misdeeds & full out failure to enhance the lives of those they are PAID to protect & aid. I wish nothing but bright futures for you and your family.

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Kimberleigh Finnegan
61 months ago

I read your entire story, I also have a campaign on here for health related issues. I have something much better than money to offer you. I know the word cancer is terrifying but please don't let it rule you because there is healing. 1.) Read the book "Cancer Killer: The Cause is the Cure". 2.) Start following that book and use Organic products. 3.) View this website WWW.becknatmed.com 4.) If your husband has any filing in his mouth have him consult a mercury free dentist after speaking to Dr. Beck to see if he is healthy enough for treatment. I have battled relentless health issues for 11 years! There is a cure and drugs are not it. :-) Best wishes!

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David Laing
61 months ago

I've just recovered completely from stage III – IV thymic cancer using a combination of traditional and alternative medicine. I drink a cup of moringa tea every morning and a cup of soursop tea every evening and I replaced sugar in my diet with omega-3 fats. Both moringa and soursop are available on Amazon.com. I have a friend who also used the same regimen and he also survived the stage four cancer. You might want to give this some thought.

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Ruth Latimer
61 months ago

The only encouragement I can give you is, I hope you are taking Susan's message to heart about AHCC.

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Chuck Thompson
61 months ago

According to the research on the drug you are seeking, the risks are amazingly bad and potentially very fatal and the drug is being pulled by the manufacturer for these exact reasons. Look for a better alternative. This drug does not appear to have the answers you are hoping for. I only wish you and your family the best. It's why I even bothered to do the research.

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Ana Silviawooten
61 months ago

I may not have money but I can send my prayers your way! I will share your story on my Facebook and maybe we can get something started. I will ask everyone on my Facebook to repost!

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Melissa Galasso
61 months ago

Jen, you should go read this...https://www.facebook.com/chrisbeatcancer it's a great story and maybe your only hope. It really works if you just open yourselves to it. You have nothing to lose...Good luck!!

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Meagan Walter Teegarden
61 months ago

Hello family. We are very moved by your story. We too have fought cancer within our immediate family, our son. We are unable to donate a monitory donation but can get your story out by sharing and asking our friends to share. I have signed the petition and have asked all our friends to do the same. Your family is in our hearts and will pray for your family.

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Susan JunFish
61 months ago

Hi Jen, I'm a public health educator and direct Parents for a Safer Environment based out of CA. A friend of mine who is very sharp, Lana, did some research after her father was diagnosed w/ cancer, 4th stage. She found out that in Japan they give all chemotherapy patients AHCC. She got some and had her father take it and from being bed ridden, he became so healthy no one, including his doctors can believe it. The tumors shrank and all his tests came back amazingly closer to normal. If you want to talk to her, I'll put you in touch with her. Since, she has introduced it to many friends and family w/ other issues like immune related diseases, and she says they are all reporting that AHCC from the source she is getting it is helping. Apparently there are some mushroom extracts that have been known to be immune system supporters for centuries. But scientific studies have recently been published even via the NIH, and I'd be happy to send you them if you e-mail me. I will pray for your husband's recovery. This experience will make you one resilient woman, wife, and mother.

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Jay Brown
62 months ago

Dear Jen and family, I have known you since your mom and you came into my life at a young age. I'm so sorry about this I remember your mom telling all of us what was going on in the first yr you got married, and it is a terrible thing,I will help in any way I can I can't imagine what it feels like with the loving family you have and the kids are so beautiful . Hang in there I have faith...

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Angela Sladek
66 months ago

im prayers are with u guys my six year just completed his chemo ge had neroblastoma he still recocerving from the effects from the cancer its long and tough journey to go through!! please let him know to remain strong and im very proud of him!

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53 months ago

Praying for you, Jen & Ray. Your strength in this difficult time is inspiring.

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Traci Meyer
54 months ago

Keep up the great work, and good luck with this week's upcoming clinical trial!

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Jaimie Johnson
54 months ago

Thank you to anyone who has donated to my brother in law and my sister, it means so much to all of us, your generosity has been amazing!thank you all so much!

+ Read More
Richelle Kemnow
60 months ago

I may not be able to donate more than my prayers for Ray, as I live on disability. I wish you all much success in the endeavors to get insurance coverage for this medication. I will share your petition on my Facebook page. May our Most Merciful Father watch over and protect your family. Shelly Ann LPN (ret), A Proud Honorable Disabled American Veteran, 1970-94

+ Read More
Giovanna Ghafoori
60 months ago

Depending on how the employer set up the insurance plan,you still have some appeal rights and remedies. If the insurance plan is a regular, employer-sponsored plan, contact your state Insurance Commissioner and file a complaint and request yet another independent review by a board-certified oncologist. If the employer is "self-funded," then the insurance plan will be ERISA-protected and under federal jurisdiction. Federal is much more onerous, but in the end, may afford more options. (U.S. Department of Labor Employee Benefits Security Administration 2300 Main St., Suite 1100 Kansas City, MO 64108 (816) 285-1800). Your state Insurance Commissioner will be able to tell you what plan you have. Hopefully your oncologist has written a strong Letter of Medical Necessity on Ray's behalf. If not, you really need that!

+ Read More
Jess Noonan
60 months ago

Have you tried rxassist.org?

+ Read More
Alejandra Pena
61 months ago

Research "Gerson Therapy"

+ Read More
Beverly Woods
61 months ago

Oh wow... I just signed and didn't realize I was tearing up while reading the whole thing. Good luck in your fight.

+ Read More
Sharon Hughes
61 months ago

I just signed your petition and will try to spread the word to friends and family. May you win this battle and receive the care you need!

+ Read More
Enilda Pérez
61 months ago

I just signed your petition. I can only imagine what you're going through, but I see that you are a very strong woman and I applaud your husband for not giving up and leading a normal life even though he's battling this terrible disease. Also, I'm going to have to agree with Kimberleigh Finnegan. I live in an island and I have heard wonderful things about moringa and soursop tea. Also, you should watch Food Matters, read Clean by Dr. Alejandro Junger and do some research about the Gerson Therapy. Please, do it!!! I don't recommend getting your husband off his meds, but it's worth looking into. We usually recur to traditional medicine to treat everything, but nature is equipped with everything we need. I wish the best to your husband and your family and I pray God gives you strength and healing. God bless you!

+ Read More
Sue Beck Esopo
61 months ago

I've signed your petition at change.org and shared it with my facebook friends.I am praying that CVS Caremark will do the right thing and allow the drugs needed to be covered.Hang in there!People care.

+ Read More
Kim Norviel
61 months ago

I too have CVS Caremark insurance and have been denied coverage of my "off-label" medication even though it substantially improves my quality of life. I hope that these petitions & fundraiser are able to help you & your family shine a light on insurance company misdeeds & full out failure to enhance the lives of those they are PAID to protect & aid. I wish nothing but bright futures for you and your family.

+ Read More
Kimberleigh Finnegan
61 months ago

I read your entire story, I also have a campaign on here for health related issues. I have something much better than money to offer you. I know the word cancer is terrifying but please don't let it rule you because there is healing. 1.) Read the book "Cancer Killer: The Cause is the Cure". 2.) Start following that book and use Organic products. 3.) View this website WWW.becknatmed.com 4.) If your husband has any filing in his mouth have him consult a mercury free dentist after speaking to Dr. Beck to see if he is healthy enough for treatment. I have battled relentless health issues for 11 years! There is a cure and drugs are not it. :-) Best wishes!

+ Read More
David Laing
61 months ago

I've just recovered completely from stage III – IV thymic cancer using a combination of traditional and alternative medicine. I drink a cup of moringa tea every morning and a cup of soursop tea every evening and I replaced sugar in my diet with omega-3 fats. Both moringa and soursop are available on Amazon.com. I have a friend who also used the same regimen and he also survived the stage four cancer. You might want to give this some thought.

+ Read More
Ruth Latimer
61 months ago

The only encouragement I can give you is, I hope you are taking Susan's message to heart about AHCC.

+ Read More
Chuck Thompson
61 months ago

According to the research on the drug you are seeking, the risks are amazingly bad and potentially very fatal and the drug is being pulled by the manufacturer for these exact reasons. Look for a better alternative. This drug does not appear to have the answers you are hoping for. I only wish you and your family the best. It's why I even bothered to do the research.

+ Read More
Ana Silviawooten
61 months ago

I may not have money but I can send my prayers your way! I will share your story on my Facebook and maybe we can get something started. I will ask everyone on my Facebook to repost!

+ Read More
Melissa Galasso
61 months ago

Jen, you should go read this...https://www.facebook.com/chrisbeatcancer it's a great story and maybe your only hope. It really works if you just open yourselves to it. You have nothing to lose...Good luck!!

+ Read More
Meagan Walter Teegarden
61 months ago

Hello family. We are very moved by your story. We too have fought cancer within our immediate family, our son. We are unable to donate a monitory donation but can get your story out by sharing and asking our friends to share. I have signed the petition and have asked all our friends to do the same. Your family is in our hearts and will pray for your family.

+ Read More
Susan JunFish
61 months ago

Hi Jen, I'm a public health educator and direct Parents for a Safer Environment based out of CA. A friend of mine who is very sharp, Lana, did some research after her father was diagnosed w/ cancer, 4th stage. She found out that in Japan they give all chemotherapy patients AHCC. She got some and had her father take it and from being bed ridden, he became so healthy no one, including his doctors can believe it. The tumors shrank and all his tests came back amazingly closer to normal. If you want to talk to her, I'll put you in touch with her. Since, she has introduced it to many friends and family w/ other issues like immune related diseases, and she says they are all reporting that AHCC from the source she is getting it is helping. Apparently there are some mushroom extracts that have been known to be immune system supporters for centuries. But scientific studies have recently been published even via the NIH, and I'd be happy to send you them if you e-mail me. I will pray for your husband's recovery. This experience will make you one resilient woman, wife, and mother.

+ Read More
Jay Brown
62 months ago

Dear Jen and family, I have known you since your mom and you came into my life at a young age. I'm so sorry about this I remember your mom telling all of us what was going on in the first yr you got married, and it is a terrible thing,I will help in any way I can I can't imagine what it feels like with the loving family you have and the kids are so beautiful . Hang in there I have faith...

+ Read More
Angela Sladek
66 months ago

im prayers are with u guys my six year just completed his chemo ge had neroblastoma he still recocerving from the effects from the cancer its long and tough journey to go through!! please let him know to remain strong and im very proud of him!

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