Support Nicki Alexopoulos’ Family

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Raised by 84 people in 26 months
On the evening of Tuesday, October 25, my family experienced the sudden and tragic loss of my mother, Nicki Alexopoulos (aka “Ms. A”), as the result of a heartless domestic shooting and senseless act of violence.

Sadly, this was not my mother’s first experience with domestic violence.

When I was very young, my mother bravely escaped from domestic violence and became a survivor. She began documenting her experiences in October 2013, with plans to one day publish her story as a means of helping others who endure domestic offenses.

My mother lost her final battle against domestic violence during what happened to be Domestic Violence Awareness Month – October. I plan to find any of her handwritten files and share her message to others that need hope or courage. Her story will not be forgotten; her spirit will live on.

She once said, “Survivors must also bear witness so people never forget. I learned this from a famous writer who survived the Holocaust. We tell our stories of violence against humanity not because we want people to feel bad or pat ourselves on the back. We tell our stories because, if we do not, the world might forget that this type of violence ever occurred. We do not want it repeated. If people know how bad it really was, perhaps they will just be in touch with wanting to help to prevent it to anyone they happen to know. My story is, of course, not as gruesome as what Elie Wiesel went through in concentration camps. But my story is a story of undeserved torture and survival.”

Never could I have imagined that my mom would be taken from us so quickly and in such a heart-wrenching manner. She was loved by many, touched the lives of everyone she met and was always willing to go the extra mile and help others in whatever way she could, no matter the situation.

Her passing has left a void in many lives that can never be filled. It has also left many unforeseen expenses that we are now responsible for covering. If you are able, any help with the following would be sincerely appreciated - more than my words could express:

 Celebration of Life Expenses and Memorial Funds
 Cleaning of Crime Scene (not fully covered by insurance)
 Numerous House Repairs (in preparation for selling)
 Monthly House Payments

During the shooting, a close family friend who was visiting my mother at the time was also critically injured. She is still receiving medical attention and in recovery. Therefore, I would love to be able to help her and her family with any current or future medical bills, travel expenses, and family treasures that were lost during the incident.

About My Mom

My mother graduated from Raytown High School, University of Central Missouri and University of Missouri-Columbia before beginning her legacy as one of the most admired English/Creative Writing teachers at Boonville High School. After spending most of her career in Boonville, she moved back to Kansas City to help care for her parents and taught at Fort Osage High School. Following retirement in 2001, she became an adjunct professor at Avila University.

She was preceded in death by her mother and her son, and survivors include her 96 year old father, myself, my husband and two adorable grandsons. She was a loving mother, grandmother, daughter, teacher, friend and overall amazing woman.

The unexpected loss of a loved one leaves a heartache that cannot fully be healed, but the love from friends and family helps mend all wounds. Thank you for your support and consideration.


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Exciting news! I'm ready to announce the venue, date and time for my mom's Celebration of Life.

A Celebration of Life for Nicki Alexopoulos will be hosted at 2 p.m. on Saturday, February 25 at Uptown Theater, 3700 Broadway, Kansas City, MO 64111. A reception will immediately follow.

Her obituary will get submitted to the Kansas City Star next week with these similar details - so it should be published in next Sunday's issue on January 15.

Thank you for all of the love and support! There are no words to express my sincere gratitude to every single person.....but please know I recognize ALL of your efforts. It continues to give us strength each and every day.

Hugs and love to everyone!
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Sarah Zsohar
26 months ago

Kristen, I did not have the pleasure of knowing your mother, but she was a friend of a friend. I am so sorry for your loss and the statement above is beautiful and so well written. I hope this first Holiday Season without her will be full of joyous memories of her. My best.

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Stephanie Tarry
26 months ago

Thinking of you and your family often. Sending my prayers and love.

26 months ago
Paula Robinson
26 months ago

My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. Nikki was an interesting person and will be missed.

Yvonne Burbach
26 months ago

Kristen we pray you, your family, and your Mother's Dad, to have as blessed and loving Christmas possible. That is what your sweet Mother would want. She will be your guardian angel. God Bless all of you, and Merry Christmas!

Lee Goergen
26 months ago

On behalf of the Raytown High School class of 1970.

Hannah Hagan
26 months ago

Wishing you peace.

Sarah Zsohar
26 months ago

Kristen, I did not have the pleasure of knowing your mother, but she was a friend of a friend. I am so sorry for your loss and the statement above is beautiful and so well written. I hope this first Holiday Season without her will be full of joyous memories of her. My best.

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