Rolando's Fight Against Cancer

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My husband, Rolando, is a devoted father of six.  Our youngest four are related to him by blood, and our oldest two became his when he married me 16 years ago.  
Two-and-a-half years ago, Rolando went to the doctor to be treated for what we thought were common nasal polyps.  However, there was nothing common about the news we received.  Mucosal melanoma, the rarest of melanomas, is what we were told Rolando had in his nasal/sinus cavity.  We were shocked.  Surgery followed.  Cancer had filled the sinus cavity and through the floor of his eye, and they were unsure if his eye would need to be removed.  We were grateful it didn’t.

Eight months later, a routine CT scan showed the cancer had spread to the lymph nodes of his neck.  This meant more surgeries, and our first experience with immunotherapy.


Five months ago, we were told that the melanoma had spread to a lymph node in his chest, now bringing him into early Stage 4.  We were offered the latest immunotherapy drug, and he finished that treatment this past November.  Just after Thanksgiving, we were given the news that the immunotherapy wasn’t effective and the tumors are continuing to grow.  There isn’t anything they can offer us at this point, except possibly a clinical trial with drugs not yet on the market.

Rolando has continued to work throughout this entire ordeal, and though he is extremely exhausted, he puts forth all his energy in spending time with our children.  Last spring, he coached his first little league baseball team. 

Though our faith remains strong, there’s no doubt this is a fight that is exhausting on many levels.
  We are grateful to be surrounded by family, friends, and our church family, all who love and support us in so many ways.  We don’t know how we would have gotten through the past few years without them.


THIS IS WHERE YOU COME IN…

There is an extremely promising virotherapy treatment that is available (in fact, it’s been used in other countries for years), but not in the U.S., and therefore it is not covered by our health insurance.  The closest country that offers this treatment is Mexico.  We would need to travel there for three weeks, where Rolando would receive daily virotherapy treatments.  After that, we would still need travel back and forth for follow-up appointments throughout the year.  At the conclusion of the first year, we reassess and go from there.

$44,000 is the cost for the treatment itself (the cost of travel throughout the year is separate, which is why we’ve made a goal of $50k).  It feels like an overwhelming amount of money, but we know every little bit helps, and we are believing that soon we will have enough to get Rolando the treatment that could save his life. 

I want to thank you ahead of time for considering donating to our family.  Our children range in age from 6 to 25, and all of them desire to have their dad around for many years to come.  They, too, thank you for helping give their dad a chance to beat cancer!  God bless you all!
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It is with great sadness that we announce Rolando lost his battle with cancer on February 4th. However, we rejoice in the knowing he is free from all he suffered and is with God in eternal freedom. Any donations made from here on out will go to his widow, Carolyn, and their children. God bless you all.
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A bit has happened since we updated last month. Rolando was going to start a clinical trial at U of C, but it was a no-go due to pancreatic enzyme levels being out of range. He continues with several treatments that were started in Mexico and, as I mentioned last time, the cancer has not spread beyond the lymph nodes, which is great. However, Rolando has been in a lot of pain and needs relief.

We have been in touch with the surgeon who has done three prior surgeries on Rolando, and he has agreed to go in and remove all the tumors that he can. This should help a lot with the pain and pressure, not to mention the physical exhaustion that he suffers as these tumors drain the energy from his body.

This amazing surgeon has, however, moved from Chicago to Vanderbilt in Nashville, so we will be headed there next week for this surgery. We ask that you keep us in your thoughts and prayers during this time, as well as our family at home. I am so grateful for my in-laws, who will be helping with keeping our household running (as the kids keep them hopping) while we are away.

As always, we thank each and every one of you for your love and support. We are grateful that you are in this fight with us.
Last week at Indiana Dunes State Park
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We just got back from Mexico for Rolando's first follow-up appointment at Hope4Cancer Clinic. Though he was scanned prior to the trip, and we knew going down that there has been tumor growth, we are happy that nothing has spread into any other organs. This is very encouraging news.

We have things to consider, including treatment options and an invitation for him to be involved in a clinical trial here in Chicago. We are still in this fight, and grateful to all who have contributed and are fighting alongside us.

Love to you all.
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It's been a little over a month since we returned from Hope4Cancer clinic in Mexico. I cannot begin to describe just how amazing and life-changing this place is. We walked in there as a patient and caregiver, and walked out of there forever changed. Not merely because of the treatments and the amazing staff, but because of the love and true friendships that were formed in the three weeks that we were there.

I am still trying to process all we experienced, but I'm left with this feeling that we are like a band of soldiers who have been thrown together to fight an enemy (cancer). We bonded quickly, linked arms, and held each other up. We laughed together, and cried together. We still do (thanks to Facebook). We celebrate the victories, encourage through the set-backs, and mourn the losses. We love. And we know there is hope.

Rolando walked out of that clinic with a 40% decrease in blood flow to the tumors. His blood work was much better than when he walked in. This is a victory. We continue with at-home treatments and therapies (including Rigvir injections and PNC-27).

We will be returning to Mexico for the first follow-up visit in June.

We are grateful for all of your love and support throughout this exhausting battle.
Rolando with Dr. Tony Jiminez, founder of Hope4Cancer Clinics
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Erin Ivory
29 months ago
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We believe you will triumph over this. You and your family continue to be in our prayers!

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amy aiello
29 months ago
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Happy to help with any kind of additional fund raising along with Mike!

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Mike Lorber
29 months ago
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Praying for you. Worked with Rolando when I reported at US Heli. Also call 115 Bourbon Street. I threw a benefit there for my Aunt and raised $ for her cancer treatment. Let me know if I can help

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Mary Compton
4 months ago

My heart is breaking. Rolando left too soon.

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Anita Stigall
23 months ago

I am praying for you and your beautiful family.

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Gail Trenholm
28 months ago

Tailgaters and everyone else rocks!!!!!. thank you everyone for helping out my son-in-law.

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Linda Ely
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Sending our love to you and your beautiful family Carolyn.

Erin Ivory
29 months ago
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We believe you will triumph over this. You and your family continue to be in our prayers!

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amy aiello
29 months ago
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Happy to help with any kind of additional fund raising along with Mike!

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Mike Lorber
29 months ago
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Praying for you. Worked with Rolando when I reported at US Heli. Also call 115 Bourbon Street. I threw a benefit there for my Aunt and raised $ for her cancer treatment. Let me know if I can help

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Mary Compton
4 months ago

My heart is breaking. Rolando left too soon.

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Anita Stigall
23 months ago

I am praying for you and your beautiful family.

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Gail Trenholm
28 months ago

Tailgaters and everyone else rocks!!!!!. thank you everyone for helping out my son-in-law.

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