Veteran, Single Dad Small Business

I am a veteran and single father that has been through five mill closings. I'm really done relying on someone else's business plan to decide whether I'll be able to retire or not or raise my children. I have an excellent business plan to start my own company. my two oldest sons are both disabled vets from the war in Afghanistan, getting hit with IED's, two days apart, and my two youngest are still in high school. I'm not looking for a hand out, I'm looking for a hand up. I will make this business a success, just need that initial kickstart!