Will & Grace 2.0

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Hi I'm Grace. I'm writing this for my friend Will. He's not doing well. He was made homeless by his brother AFTER Will took care of their mother who had Alzheimers but died of pancreatic cancer. Will was supposed to be the Executor of their mother's estate, but Gary stole the estate with "help" from a lawyer who was 100 miles away, though there were plenty of local lawyer's who would have helped with probate because Mom was a resident of Livermore for decades and had owned the home since early 1970's. The home the brother's lived in and Will should have had it as he gave up his house and business to take care of Mom, as his brother had his own home with his wife and children, didn't care for their mother and offered no financial help at all. Not 1 dime. Ever. Even after the house caught on fire and Will spent his money to it after the insurance company caused delays and gave his sister-in-law some of the proceeds since she was family and took calls meant for their mother. Dorothy died in 2014. This has been a big problem with delays in court filings because.9f Gary and his legal issues he was trying to ignore. But Will was thrown out and made homeless with his little dog Andy. And Will has prostrate cancer. And he hasn't been able to receive treatment. Will needs a lawyer and he needs his life back. He also has spinal stenosis and needs physical therapy. And he can't get it because he is homeless and has no car. I drive him around, manage his medicine and am his best friend. Will & Grace 2.0. Please help my best friend. I need him alive. He needs a place to live and the Grace of God in his life and I will remind him of that, but he has been burdened with so much loss, so much pain (physical and mental), so much that has diminished his life. He needs to know his life isn't over. We're in our 50's. We have many more years to live. Please help.
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Will is my best friend and he is having tons of issues.

He's a functional alcoholic and has PTSD from caring for his mother through the last stages of her life dealing with Alzheimers and pancreatic cancer, and he did it ALONE though he had a brother, sister in law and their kids, but his niece filled for emancipation from her parents over abuse, especially her father. The County sheriff's came with her so she could get her things.

His brother had Will removed from his mother's house making Will homeless and broke. Will was supposed to be the executor of her estate. Gary had that changed through the court after a 4 year delay, due to the court action from his daughter.

Will is a good man. He accepted his life as a Gay man just in the last few years, since his mother's death. His brother and wife have issues with homosexuality. They have no understanding of Will and who he is.

Will would love if he could see his niece again. Apologize for not hearing or being there for her, but being there for Grandma was his primary concern. Dorothy was his best friend, not just his Mom. Coleen should never have had a Cheshire green when she was dying. Should never have interfered with the insurance company after the house suffered a fire and smoke damage. Should never have taken checks meant for Dorothy. Coleen and Gary did enough to ruin lives. They should have well enough alone and not been greedy and despicable.

Please help Will. He has people who love him and care for him, like me. I don't want him die. Please help me keep him alive.

Grace (Venka)
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Will is still wreck. I have spent my money on Motle 6 rooms (cheap and flat beds and they take dogs with. no questions), so his back hasn't been killing him. He drinks to self medicate and there are some meds he can't take due to overdose/alcohol impairment. He listens to me, but it is often too much for me to handle, especially when he has too much any given day.

And he gets sick when he doesn't gave any. He goes through withdrawal and it ain't pretty. I know enough about alcoholism to know that much. Something my mother thought was BS and if someone wanted to stop they just should. A matter of character and upbringing, supposedly. Why she refused to accept her brother's diagnosis of alcoholism and why Dad and I were after her to stop that. Her sister's never heard it, just the two of us. Thank God she's dead. It was a blessing that she could be heaven. See her brother again and their parents. Hopefully she got an earful.

I have compassion, unlike her, and can she the faults that an individual can overcome to hopefully have a better life. Will needs that catalyst before it's too late.

Please help me help him. Any donations are coming to me so I can manage his finances and it won't go to Vodka.
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Will has been diagnosed with spinal stenosis and before surgery is considered he has to undergo physical therapy which will be painful and difficult as he is homeless. Sleeping on floors in a yoga mat is what we bacamd used to. We've taken to sleeping in the car or scrounging out pennies until we have enough for Motel 6 or less for a night or 2.

No updates on the prostrate cancer. I remain hopeful it hasn't metastasized. I can't loose Will. He's too important to me as being my partner in life and the only reason I am still alive.

Please help.
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Will needs your help. He has to hire an attorney to be able to see his inheritance his mother wanted him to have, including the house he lived in with her throughout he illness and as a child. His brother lied, got an attorney 100 miles away, and cheated the system. His methods are heinous and I won't bore you with the details.

Will needs help and all I can do is listen and type. Please help this man whose brother hates him, and not just because he "decided" to be gay. As if that is a decision. It's accepting that is the struggle and fear of how the family will deal with it. Will became homless in his 50's after caring for his mother. She knew what he was. And she loved him. Pity his brother didn't.
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