Lincoln Marston-KISS fan

We are the NC  KISS Army, and we are raising money to purchase an urn and for cremation services for one of our own - Lincoln Marston
On Januray 3, Lincoln had an aneurysm on his brain, that burst.  He has been a patient at Duke Hospital since that day.  The days since have been full of both hope and dispair.  But, after almost 2 weeks, the doctors are now saying that it is time to say goodbye.  All medical assistance will be stopped on Monday January 18 - if he makes it that long.
His wife, Amy, has a dream of purchasing a KISS urn for Lincoln, and we would like to make that dream come true.  As if the last 2 weeks have not been hard enough on Amy and their 2 children, she has also had the added burden of finances- because Lincoln was the sole provider.  We would like to releive some of that burden by providing the urn and services for Lincoln.
Lincoln became a KISS fan at around the age of 9.  He was amazing to talk with about his love for the band - he knew what seemed like every little tiny detail about the band and their history.  And he loved to share his knowledge, if you asked him to.
Lincoln also served in the US Air Force for 18 years, and just recently retired.
We truely appreciate any and all help that is given.  We want to be able to not only help one of our dear friends, but also show how much we love them.
Thank you, in advance, for anything you can offer <3