Let's help Bobby feel at home in their body

Hi friends, Sass here, Bobby's partner. Much to Bobby's discomfort, I am making a fundraiser to help them cover the costs of their gender affirming surgery. After many chats, I finally received a green light for Bob to go ahead with this. Well done Bobby. ♥️

Way back before Bobby and I were dating, when I had a budding crush on them, I would often see their name in the list of donors on other people's crowdfunding campaigns. Naturally the crush grew every time I saw their name. More recently, Bobby told me about how, when earning their paramedic wage, they used to love browsing Gofundme to find fundraisers to donate to. Even on their more modest teachers/barber wage, Bob is still giving to, and caring for, our community. It's our turn to help this big hearted babe.

Bobby is one of those humans who is always gardening in the nude. When the sun comes out, Bobbys shirt comes off and something shifts - they relax, they are themself. What a gift it would be for Bobby to be able to exist in the world, with that same sense of euphoria they have in the privacy of our garden.

This year has been a particularly frightening year for trans and gender diverse folks. We are seeing progress unravel on societal and legislative levels and are left questioning whether the window to gender affirming care may be closing. Now feels like a poignant time to get behind our TGD loved ones and support them in meaningful, tangible ways.

Total quoted cost for Bobby's top surgery - $18,000 - $22,000. The smile on Bobby's face after top surgery - priceless. They'll be a walking Mastercard ad.

Conclusion - Bob is an angel who deserves to feel at home in their body. Let's help them.