Funeral expenses for Kali Ann-Marie Toscano

Who this will help

This money will go to help us purchase the urns needed to divide kalis ashes up between a few family members as well as any memorial items and expenses for the funeral and service.

Why I'm fundraising

what was supposed to be the happiest day of my life, the day my dreams come true of finally becoming a mother turned into the worst day of my entire life in an instant. november 24 2023 i went in for a scheduled c section. she was born 9:57 am. once she was out they didnt even show her to me they rushed her back. she was having breathing issues but was breathing on her own just struggling a bit. because of the lack of oxygen they said she would most likely have brain damage but to wat extent they did not know so they had to reduce her body temperature to try and stop the damage from spreading. They then needed to intubate her they said they needed to do a pic line. after that she started seriously declining. and apparently they said something unclamped on her belly button and she lost a lot of blood and needed to give her a blood transfusion. well after awhile of her declining they decided that they were gonna send us to hartford hospital and her to the childrens medical center so they could put her on a lifesaving machine called the ecmo machine.. once there she went into cardiac arrest twice. we came through the undeground tunnles between the hospitals to see her, while there she went into cardiac arrest a third time. right in front of us, it was so hard to watch. they brought us to a room. we waited wat felt like forever. they came back and told us thers alot of blood around her heart and lungs.that the only chance although slight would be open heart surgery to remove the blood. what else could we do but take the chance. and good thing we did because he came back and told us they found TWO holes one in her valve most likely caused by the ecmo machine and another in her heart. we asked if it coulda been a birth defect he said no. so the dr stiched up the holes and we went back to my room to rest. mind u i JUST had a c section and was trying to go back n fourth between hospitals to see my baby girl every few hrs.so we went back thinking she was doing good. till i got a call from the hospital saying to come down that we might wanna get down there that shes really not doing good. we get there and they tell us theres pretty much nothing they can do that we should just take her off the machines. that theres really no brain function anyway. and she was bleeding in her brain from all the shock and trauma. so we had to make the decision to let her go. so on november 26th at 12:57 am we let our little girl become our little angel. this is the worst pain ive ever been through and ive been through alot in my short time on this earth. i wouldnt wish this pain on my worst enemies. i miss my baby so much. i just feel so empty inside. we just really wanna be able to get a few small urns and memorial pieces for my baby girl that can help us through the grieving process as well as pay any exspenses for a funeral and service. were still working out all the details at the moment. its just been very hard and overwhelming.

for those who asked my paypal email is [email redacted] and our cashapp is @ SyeicoWinters

The impact of your support

Any donations would mean the world to us. we are so thankful and appreciative of all the love and suppot you all have shown us in this time. i didnt think that many people cared but weve recieved so many codolences and cards and so much love and prayers. it truly means alot. thank you <3