At the urging of a good friend, we are asking for help. On September 13th, Ron (aka Big Sexy) was taken to the emergency room and admitted to the hospital that same day. He was very very sick. As of October 1st, he is still in the hospital awaiting a port for dialysis so that his kidneys can regain their function and his liver can improve long enough to be eligible for a new one. Despite insurance, the medical costs are going to be huge and stressful and we are putting aside our pride and asking for help.