Hi Everyone,
As you are aware, I recently lost my brother Stan Choy to a medical condition. Although I am overcome with grief, my main focus right now is to make sure that his family (Michelle and Cayden) are taken care of.
For those of you that know Stan, you know what a fantastic person he was. He will be forever missed by all those that were blessed by his presence. What many of you may not know, is that Stan became the proud father of Cayden last year. Stan was excited to watch him grow up, and we just talked last week about how excited we both were to spend time together with the kids as this COVID lockdown comes to a close. We talked about how much fun it is to watch our kids grow up, and how amazing they can be. He was such an amazing dad, and it kills me that he will no longer be able to watch Cayden grow up.
Stan will always be my brother, and I will always be there for his family, but I need your help. I am asking everyone to donate whatever they can to help the family with funeral costs, and to help setup a trust for Cayden. Stan didn't deserve to lose his life, and his son did not deserve to grow up without a father. I know how many people's lives were touched by Stan, and I know that people will come out to support this wonderful human being and his poor grief stricken family.
Please leave comments about memories you may have had with Stan in the comments section (or message me on Facebook) as I would like to collect these memories and put them together so that his son can one day read about the type of person his father was. I want Cayden to know the world saw his dad the same way I did.
Thank you all for your generosity. I truly appreciate it.
Love you Stan. I'll spend the rest of my life missing you. I'll never let anyone forget who you were or how much you were loved. I'll make sure Cayden is watched over and that your smiling from above. We used to be the coconut and banana. This coconut rolls alone now.
Your brother, and best friend.
Ashwin Kadaba
