Bring Abby's Mom to the U.S. for Closure

Help Bring My Soulmate’s Mother to the U.S. to Say Goodbye

My name is Todd Sharfe, and I’m heartbroken to share that my soulmate, Abby, passed away unexpectedly. She was only 36 years old. None of us were prepared for this—because how could you ever prepare for losing someone so full of life, so full of love?

Abby was everything to me. She wasn’t just my partner—she was my best friend, my biggest supporter, my inspiration. Together, we built a beautiful life and a growing business. We had dreams—big ones. We were planning for a future that’s now been stolen far too soon.

Now, I’m doing everything I can to honor her, but I can’t do it alone.

Her mother is in Jamaica, and she needs to come to the U.S. to take care of Abby’s cremation and help plan a proper Celebration of Life. It’s important that her mom is here—to grieve, to find closure, and to be surrounded by those who loved Abby so deeply.

This GoFundMe is to help cover:

Emergency travel expenses for Abby’s mother

Cremation and related costs

A Celebration of Life that reflects who Abby was—beautiful, radiant, and full of light

If you knew Abby, you know how special she was. And if you didn’t, just know that she changed lives with her presence, her energy, and her heart. She didn’t deserve to leave this world so soon—but she does deserve to be honored with love, dignity, and family by her side.

Thank you for anything you can do—whether it’s donating or sharing this campaign. It means more than words can say.

With love,

Todd