Please Help if You Can

My story is a difficult one to tell.  I was once a very independent successful woman who thought she met the man of her dreams.  The dating part was amazing and he seemed to be everything I ever wanted.  We married after 8 months and immediately everything changed.  He became extremely controlling, demanding and jealous.  I was told when I met him he was a successful commercial contractor.  When I googled him it showed him working for a big company and so I didn't dig any deeper.  
A  few months after we were married he told me we should remodel my home because he has 5 children and we needed more space.  He said he owned a home that he had sold for 1.2 M and made a bunch of money so he could use that for the remodel.  As the years went by with my house a disaster, the lies started coming out.  He had torn down my home with no permit.  When I questioned him, he gave me a fake permit.  My home sat for over a year with snow, rain and weather taking its toll.  In addition to this, he became very controlling about everything.  He started accusing me of cheating, lying, not being a submissive wife that should follow her husband.  He would sit up all night going through my phone and my computer, finding emails from years back from old boyfriends.  He began using this against me calling me names and wounding my soul.  I was so confused and I thought maybe he just needed more from me.  I gave and gave and gave. It was never enough.  
The lies continued on the remodel of my home.  In addition, he told me if I put him on the deed of my home, he would add me to the deed of his home.  We went to the bank and had the deeds notarized.  Months later I would find out he had no home and this was just a scam.  
I finally left him and I'm now in the middle of a horrible divorce and civil lawsuit.  In addition, I have found out recently, that he has criminal charges pending against him.   The lies continue to surface as I have found out he was still married when I met him... not divorced for 2 years as he said.  
I am trying to recover emotionally from all of this and now I find myself in a situation I cannot do on my own.   Thank you for your time and your support.

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