Now that the divorce is final, I want the situation to be clear. For over six years, I worked consistently and was the sole financial provider for the household. During that same time, justin chose not to work, despite being physically and mentally capable of doing so. He also did not contribute to basic daily responsibilities, including grocery shopping. Drinking and playing video games were more important to him.

I worked long hours to cover ALL living expenses while repeatedly asking him to help and seek employment. Those efforts did not result in any lasting change. Over time. I finally broke, I couldn't carry the full financial and emotional responsibility alone. So.... I finally had enough self worth to ask for a divorce.

Even with all of that, the final order requires me to pay alimony to someone who is able to work and has only recently become employed. He leaves the marriage without financial obligation, while I am required to pay $52,000 within 90 days and give up my vehicle plus all the stuff he stole out of the house when I was at work. Honestly, This has me devastated and heart broken. I've given him everything and more and now he wants to take more from me. I know he think he won, but in reality I really WON. I found myself again and I am so much more happy. I know how I should be treated and what I am worth. I will never let anyone dim my light again.

✌️ I hope you have the day you deserve ✌️