VETERAN N FAMILY ARE GOING TO LOSE HOUSE,PLS HELP.

Hi guys
i never thought I would be doing this but I have no option. I got behind on my association fees in 2019 after Back surgery. During Covid-19 my wife was furloughed for 6 months. I’m a disabled veteran( I hate throwing that out here, I have proof, I have my permanent disabled veteran ID and anything else to show, I’m not a superstar Vet, just a regular guy) and so I get my Pension and Disability. Normally that and my wife’s pay( she’s back to work) gets us through life, just enough but thankful for that. She has 2 girls, I have 2 boys ( 1 is in the Air Force now, proud of him) and we have one together. He’s 8 and has only known our house as his home. He is on the Autism Spectrum But is more towards Asbergers  and so his autism isn’t severe, he’s pretty good. We have been married 9 years and together 11 years. My mortgage isn’t the problem, I have been good on that but I went to court and they set a sale date of May 17th if I don’t pay. The attorneys or Association don’t want to make a payment arrangement, I have tried for the last year. I don’t have the $11k+ to save our house.
this is my first house and I got it through a V.A. Home loan so I have a good rate. With all of our bills there is now way I could pay it all at once. I don’t know if you guys can help me but I’m out of options. My mom is 75 and on social security, my sisters can barely pay their bills and my wife only has one family member, her 74 year old uncle who lives in New York in a rent controlled apartment, so no one to ask for help. If you need anything else from me please let me know. I’m desperate enough to do this which is highly embarrassing to beg people for money. I’ve given on here before but I never thought I would have to rely on good peoples help. When I think of the kids having to move, it breaks my heart, I can live under a bridge if necessary but not them, I haven’t broken the news to them because I still have hope. Well I guess this has gotten too long. I thank everyone for just reading this and either donating or considering it.
thank you very much
God Bless

Frank Oliva