I'm Phoebe. I live in Los Angeles, CA. My dad, Clement White, died Monday, July 31, 2017. My baby sister and my nephew are dealing with everything on their own. My nephew is only 23 and my dad, his grandfather, was the only father he knew. He's having a hard time. My sister is dealing with a lot and needs my help. It's only the three of us left in the family. My mom died many years ago when my baby sister was only 15 years old. This is a difficult time and I need them perhaps more than they need me. I can't afford to fly across the country to NC because I lost my job a month ago. I really, really want to be with my family.