Help a father of 3 fight the evil

This is probably next to the hardest thing I have ever had to do but I am desperate and need your help in more ways than one and I am having to set aside my pride and ask for help.   I have never been the type to ever ask for anything or expect anything in life I didn’t work for. I have been working a full time job since I was old enough to work but this is my kids, my life. I need help financially and Better yet I need your prayers. This will be some what of a lengthy post but I feel it is necessary to see a broader picture of who I am and my battle. My name is Joseph Partlow and I am a 33 year old single father from Temple, Georgia. I first become a father at the early age on 20 to my beautiful daughter who is now 13.  In 2008 I met who I believed was the love of my life, ended up marrying and having two more beautiful children, a son who is 11 who suffers from autism and another daughter who is 4.  Being a father of three children has been the greatest joy in my life.  Family vacations, family movie nights, picnics, game nights you name it and we did it. If there was one thing my children never doubted it was they knew they hung the moon in their daddy’s eyes. After 10 years of marriage my now ex-wife, Amanda decided she no longer wanted to be married and later moved to Arkansas with my two youngest children.  As Amanda made her transition to move hundreds of miles away I would make regular trips after working 12-14 hour days and drive non-stop just to be able to go on field trips with my son because I always wanted him to grow up knowing he could always depend on his daddy.  Amanda and I still continued to always keep our children’s best interest in mind and attempt to raise our children together even though we were hundreds of miles apart.  Amanda expressed still wanting to continue a close relationship in spite of her mother’s wishes but always said it had to be kept on the low. Amanda’s mother had not approved of me or our marriage since day one so that had a lot of influence on Amanda’s decisions. Amanda expresses instead of making child support payments she would just draw money out of my checking account to pay for daycare and any other needs she had financially with the children and I was ok with that, Amanda had a debit card and done this for quiet some time until eventually finding herself in another relationship with another man. That relationship lasted for some time but continued being social and allowing me regular visitation with my children. Fast forward to that relationship ended and Amanda expressing how much she loved me and wanted to work things out. I continuously would leave after work and drive to Arkansas to be with her and my children. I loved Amanda and to this day even through the evil you will read I still do although now it’s a different kind of love, only the love of my children’s mother not the love of my life I want to spend the rest of my life with. Even after our divorce I would take them on vacations because I was being led to believe she loved me and wanted to be a family.  Amanda would always choose where she wanted to go and I would take them. I wanted to build memories with my family that they would have to look back on as they got older. Since being divorced in 2018 Amanda continued to express how she wanted to try to work things out as a family  so I always tried to do everything I could that she ask or wanted Because I wanted nothing more than to be a family.   Just within the past year we traveled to  many destinations as a family. March  Houston Texas, May Dallas Texas, last October New Orleans, Gulf Shores then Me,  my mom and Hannah my oldest daughter spent 4 days in Arkansas for New Years then February I spent valentines weekend there with her.  Just since last March when she ask me to meet her in Houston Texas for her friends wedding after she and the new guy split up in late January. I took her and the kids on a-lot great vacations Together in such a short time. We had an amazing time, took lots of pictures but she would always say take them of you and the kids, leave me out because I don’t want mom to know we are together. Fast forward to the evil most horrible times of mine and my children’s life. 107 days ago I was served with papers after my children returned home from a visit accusing me of molesting my 4 year old daughter immediately suspending all my rights as a father for visitation and placed me under a protective order stating she is in fear of her safety. A forensic investigation was conducted in Arkansas where there was no evidence found and the case was closed. No one from the local authorities had contacted me where I live to conduct any type investigation of the allegations.  In the initial report the words that Amanda stated my 4 year old daughter used is not even words that a 4 year old would know the meaning of.  I went to the local Sheriffs Office here in the county I live and explained to them the allegations to which they were already aware to a certain extent. I expressed my concerns of being a daddy to my 4 year old I felt that it was my duty to attempt to identify if In fact this had happened to my daughter who was responsible. she had been around family as well during her visitation and it is my job as her dad to protect her so if something happened I wanted to know and wanted to know the truth. If something like that happened we needed to know Who it was so it could be handled Immediately. I was advised all cases had been closed due to lack of any evidence. I then contacted Amanda and begged her to talk with me that I had done nothing wrong, I loved my kids and I wanted to see them. Amanda still refused and begin to ignore all text and phone calls and refused to allow either one of my children to have any contact with me still.  I hired a lawyer in Arkansas to represent me on the allegations to obtain the protective order at which time the judge ordered everything be dismissed after a couple of weeks.  Another Long two weeks, I waited with still no contact with my youngest two children. My 13 year old daughter continued visitation as regular as always  but has been taken away from her siblings as well. On occasion she would get to talk to them on the phone but anytime she mention me or told them daddy loved them Landon, my son would always say we aren’t suppose to talk about daddy, mama says daddy is a bad person. So time continues and on to the day the judge ordered my orders To expire.  I sent Amanda A text telling her I just wanted to see my kids, we needed to work through this for our kids sake And be adults.  I expressed how evil and unfair she was and told her again I just wanted to see my kids, I love my kids with everything in me and I would never hurt my children in any way. I have always supported my children 110% I have been a working father, working 60-80 hrs a week to provide the best I could for my children and do things with them building memories they would never forget.  Amanda wouldn’t respond again to anything, a few days later serving me with another order of the same allegations. I have begged, I have pleaded and ask to take a polygraph, I have cooperated 100%, I just want my babies back. There are so many children in this world that grow up without a father figure in their life because of the choices the father makes or does not make. This situation is different my children are growing up without their father because of the evil mind And actions of their Mother.  I no longer want to spend the rest of my life with Amanda, I no longer feel she is my sole mate but what I do want to do is co-parent and be back an active role in my children’s life. Every day I miss because of her evil selfish lies is a day I can never get back. I have went and met with a local attorney here in Georgia in Carroll County where I live and where our divorce was filed to fight for my rights to get back my children. After meeting with my attorney she feels we have a very good case In more ways than one, without getting into details Amanda has been and continues to be in contempt in many ways. In the most recent order she request I be incarcerated until I pay 100% of back child support, even though I know and she knows what we agreed on with her having access and taking out money from my checking account to pay daycare and other expenses related to our children But at this point  it’s not about the money. It was my ignorance for allowing myself to be put in that position and not paying it directly to her as child support so their would be a record so I’ll eat that mistake, I’ll pay her the money again but what I won’t do is sit back and let her brainwash my children, take them away from me and them grow up without me being a part of their lives without a fight in court. After meeting with the attorney I got my fees of $10,000 for her to represent me. I don’t have $10,000 but I’m gonna find a way because their is no price to put on my children. Amanda knows I don’t have a lot of money and normally couldNot come near to afford something like that but where there is a will there is a way and this daddy is gonna fight. Feel free to check me out on Facebook, you can clearly see the love I have for my children and the happiness you will see on their faces when they are with me. I also understand now days that people abuse go fund me pages and many are not legitimate. If you aren’t comfortable donating here but you can help me, I can put you in touch with my attorney Candace Radar in Carrollton and a donation payment can be made directly to her towards my attorney fees .   I come to you as humbled as I know how and beg you to please help me to see my children again. My children need me as much as I need them. My son who is severely autistic needs structure, no being pulled away from the comfort and stability that only me as his father can provide. Please help us. I will do any type work to repay you for anything you are able to give.  Like I said I already work a full time job of 60-80 a week  to support myself as a single father, my 13 year old daughter and my other two children until their mother refused to allow it but that’s not enough to fight a legal battle such as this.