Help Me Escape a Homophobic-Manipulative Household

My name is Kyu and I’m a 17 yr old Iraqi immigrant living in California. I take care of my senior father with paralysis while working a full-time minimum wage job. My parents are Muslim conservatives who don’t support me being queer. About two years ago, my parents saw coming out messages I sent to a close relative and almost threw me out at just 13 years old. They also forced me into free labor working for a family friend so these “queer thoughts” would go away. I am diagnosed with ADHD enrolled in all-advanced classes, and they deprived me from any medications. My family is from Mosul and many relatives of mines were either killed by ISIS or the war. The trauma inflicts violence on me and my sister. Please help me out, I am planning to save up
money to go to a good college up north.