Widowed, 3 kids, (1 aut); evicted!!

I am a 57 year old widower, my wife died of cancer in 2008. I have three children, my middle daughter is SEVERELY autistic, (screams about almost everything - including lightning storms); and (because of my autistic daughter, I cannot work. (She has been thrown out of every day care facility I have ever placed her in.) We are being forced to move, Chapin's Landing (711 Underwood Ave.) wanted us out by the 15th of July.