Loving hand for Christopher Bethay
visit christopher on facebook at his site Take My Hand.
Wishing Christopher the best with his surgeries! Kristen Bishop, Christopher's mother wants Christopher to have surgeries so he can have better motor skills with his hands. Being able to use fingers to manipulate objects is essential for basic independent life (such as eating, writing, etc). Loving your child, means wanting the best possible life for them. If surgery can improve Christopher's quality of life, then why wouldn't she want it?
My son and botfriend have the same hands your son does. His feet are also "deformed". Most of the family does as well. As a mother I understand why you're doing this. I really do. I know what my son will have ridicule. That he'll face judgement unfairly and cruelty. But I also know that he'll never think that I don't love him or think he's perfect. Because I do, and he 100% is. I wish you and your son all the best in the world!
So you're basically showing him that in your eyes God didn't make him perfect? Unconditional love, that's what a parent is suppose to have. I pity Christopher for having a mother who is choosing to alter his body rather than appreciate what God has given. Instead, you should have taught him that he is perfect in your eyes, no "alterations" needed.
Dear julia thank you so much
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