Thaliya’s memory charms
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So. My eldest daughter has been through so much traumer in her little life and one of those being she lost her baby sister back on the 5th December 2015.
She didn’t cope well with this as she was a healthy little girl and I found a way to help her keep her memories alive so decided to purchase her a pandora bracelet that we hung on her sisters memory tree each Christmas and birthday. The charms represent that year or party that she had and she believed it came from her sister as if she was still their with her. It became such a huge part of her world that it was the most exiting part of her presents going out to find her tree to see what her sister has left. It made her feel her magic was still alive and that she was their in spirit. So long story short. She decided to wear this pandora over the summer holidays to her dads house ( we split when she was 1 so not his other daughter ) he then lost it. He denies every part of this and accused me of loosing it even tho my daughter even told him she has it at his house last. I’m heart broken as their is nothing I can do to prove it but being a single mum my self now it broke me. I am having another baby girl due the exact same due date as the sister she lost and this is causing a lot of struggle for Thaliya. She’s become so attached to her bracelet but when I said to her dad he needs to find it he stated that he never had it and it doesn’t matter as she’s gone now and I’m reality it’s not from her sister at all it’s from me. This broke my heart so I have decided I have to replace this. I can’t bare telling my daughter it’s lost. So I’m desperate to raise as much as I can towards replacing it. I have already got a few of the charms but still missing a few. And would love any help I can get to replace it without having to admit the memory’s and attachments she has towards them at home for ever. Hopefully she won’t know any difference so if you can I would be so grateful for any spare change you can spare. Or even just well wishes. Unless you have lost someone and have something continental it’s hard to understand but for me and my family it’s not about the money it’s thE meaning I can’t have lost for ever. I hope this explains it to th best I can. And thank you for just taking the time to read this. That alone shows so much support and care.
Many thanx.
Thaliya’s mummy x
She didn’t cope well with this as she was a healthy little girl and I found a way to help her keep her memories alive so decided to purchase her a pandora bracelet that we hung on her sisters memory tree each Christmas and birthday. The charms represent that year or party that she had and she believed it came from her sister as if she was still their with her. It became such a huge part of her world that it was the most exiting part of her presents going out to find her tree to see what her sister has left. It made her feel her magic was still alive and that she was their in spirit. So long story short. She decided to wear this pandora over the summer holidays to her dads house ( we split when she was 1 so not his other daughter ) he then lost it. He denies every part of this and accused me of loosing it even tho my daughter even told him she has it at his house last. I’m heart broken as their is nothing I can do to prove it but being a single mum my self now it broke me. I am having another baby girl due the exact same due date as the sister she lost and this is causing a lot of struggle for Thaliya. She’s become so attached to her bracelet but when I said to her dad he needs to find it he stated that he never had it and it doesn’t matter as she’s gone now and I’m reality it’s not from her sister at all it’s from me. This broke my heart so I have decided I have to replace this. I can’t bare telling my daughter it’s lost. So I’m desperate to raise as much as I can towards replacing it. I have already got a few of the charms but still missing a few. And would love any help I can get to replace it without having to admit the memory’s and attachments she has towards them at home for ever. Hopefully she won’t know any difference so if you can I would be so grateful for any spare change you can spare. Or even just well wishes. Unless you have lost someone and have something continental it’s hard to understand but for me and my family it’s not about the money it’s thE meaning I can’t have lost for ever. I hope this explains it to th best I can. And thank you for just taking the time to read this. That alone shows so much support and care.
Many thanx.
Thaliya’s mummy x
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Stacie Elliott
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