One day, you start your day like any other, then the phone rings. The words sting your ears: your soulmate has passed away. You try to gather your thoughts when all the memories come roaring in. He is her soulmate, an amazing father and grandfather. The loss is impossible. The family, the friends, can't believe it. What do you do next?

I'm speaking of the heartache and need for help for my friend Kelly Lasorsa. She has lost her soulmate, John Lammers, in the blink of an eye. We would like to raise funds to help with final expenses.