Robert Funeral Memorial Fundraising
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En la mañana de el lunes 8 de Marzo 2021 mi papa Roberto Ramos (Robert) se encontraba en la estación de autobuses del Kennedy Plaza en Providence RI, como acostumbraba hacerlo cada mañana por los últimos 31 años para dirigirse a su trabajo, y fue encontrado en el suelo inconsciente, se procedió a llamar a rescate, mi Papa estuvo aproximadamente 10 minutos sin recibir oxígeno, se estimó este tiempo en el que estuvo inconsciente con el tiempo en que tardo la ambulancia de rescate en llegar, el cual inmediatamente le procedió a dar los primeros auxilios que se prolongo por 30 minutos de camino a el hospital mas cercano el Rhode Island Hospital donde pudieron revivirlo e inmediatamente entro en estado de coma. Nunca sabremos el tiempo exacto en el que mi Papa estuvo inconsciente y sin recibir oxigeno en sus órganos principales. Mi Papa fue diagnosticado con un ataque a el corazón, los daños fueron tan severos que ocasionaron, muerte cerebral y que inmediatamente algunos de sus órganos dejaran de funcionar como los riñones. Desde entonces estuvo en el hospital en donde reclame se le practicaran exhaustivos exámenes profundos para ver si había la posibilidad de algún cambio o mejoría través de los días. Lamentablemente no hubo cambios que me dieran la esperanza de alguna mejoría, su cuerpo se estaba deteriorando rápidamente y sus órganos vitales empezaron a dejar de funcionar. Sus brazos estaban hinchados y ya no le circulaba la sangre. Solo máquinas podían mantenerlo vivo y de ocurrir algún milagro viviría como un vegetal por la falta de actividad cerebral. Los médicos le dieron poca probabilidad de vida. Y yo se con los mas profundo de mi corazón q mi papa no hubiera querido vivir así. Tuve que tomar la decisión mas grande importante y dolorosa de desconectar a mi Papá para que pudiese descansar en Paz. Nunca se esta preparado para una perdida tan grande un hombre tan alegre, saludable lleno de vida y trabajador. Un padre un amigo que nunca dijo NO a nadie que nunca se quejó de la vida que Dios escogió para el. Dado a la situación del covid19 no se permitía la entrada de visitantes o familiares al momento en que se tomo esta decisión, se que mi Papa era muy querido por sus amigos, familia y compañeros de trabajo y música y como le encantaba tocar su trompeta. Es por este motivó que deseo poder velarlo para darle la oportunidad a todos a mi misma que soy hija única mi familia sus nietos de decirle adios por ultima vez pero necesito ayuda para costear los gastos funerarios que se estiman en $5,000. Jamas me perdonaría el No haberle podido dar a mi Papa un tan merecido Funeral o al menos intentarlo con la ayuda de ustedes. No importa que tan grande sea la cantidad todo será bien recibido y apreciado que Dios les multiplique su ayuda. Abrasen a sus seres queridos siempre díganles cuanto los aman por que hoy me toco a mi mañana pero el día de mañana puede sorprender a otra persona Dios los bendiga.
On the morning of Monday, March 8, 2021, my father Roberto Ramos (Robert) was at the Kennedy Plaza bus station in Providence RI, as he used to do every morning for the last 31 years to go to work, and he was found on the ground unconscious, a good samaritan proceeded to call for rescue, my dad spent approximately 10 minutes without receiving oxygen, this time was estimated from the time he was unconscious vs the time it took for the ambulance to arrive, they immediately proceeded to give first aid that lasted 30 minutes on the way to the nearest hospital, (the Rhode Island Hospital), where they could revive him and he immediately went into a coma. We will never know the exact time that my dad was unconscious and without receiving oxygen in his organs. My dad was diagnosed with a cardiac arrest, the damage was so severe that it caused brain death and immediately some of his organs stopped working like his kidneys. Since then he has been in the hospital where he underwent an extensive examination, to see if there was the possibility of any change or improvement over the days. Unfortunately there were no changes that gave me hope of some improvement, his body was deteriorating rapidly and his vital organs began to stop working. His arms were swollen and his blood was no longer circulating. Only machines could keep him alive and if a miracle happened he would live like a vegetable due to the lack of brain activity. Doctors gave him little chance of life. And I know with the deepest of my heart that my father would not have wanted to live like this. I had to make the biggest and most painful decision to disconnect my Dad so that he could rest in Peace. You are never prepared to say bye to a man who was so happy, healthy, full of life and hardworking, you’re never prepared for such of great loss. A father a friend who never said NO to anyone who never complained about the life God chose for him. Given the covid19 situation, visitors or family members were not allowed to enter at the time this decision was made, I know that my dad was very loved by his friends, family and work colleagues and musicians friends and how he loved to play his trumpet. It is for this reason that I want to be able to say my last goodbye since I was his only daughter, to give my Dad the Memorial he deserves, to give my family, his friends and grandchildren’s, the opportunity as well. But I need help paying for the funeral expenses that are estimated at $ 5,000. I would never forgive myself for not being able to give my Father a well deserved Funeral or at least trying to do so with your help. It does not matter how large the amount is, everything will be well received and appreciated. May God multiplies your help. Always hold your loved ones always tell them how much you love them because today it is my turn but tomorrow may surprise another person. God bless you.
On the morning of Monday, March 8, 2021, my father Roberto Ramos (Robert) was at the Kennedy Plaza bus station in Providence RI, as he used to do every morning for the last 31 years to go to work, and he was found on the ground unconscious, a good samaritan proceeded to call for rescue, my dad spent approximately 10 minutes without receiving oxygen, this time was estimated from the time he was unconscious vs the time it took for the ambulance to arrive, they immediately proceeded to give first aid that lasted 30 minutes on the way to the nearest hospital, (the Rhode Island Hospital), where they could revive him and he immediately went into a coma. We will never know the exact time that my dad was unconscious and without receiving oxygen in his organs. My dad was diagnosed with a cardiac arrest, the damage was so severe that it caused brain death and immediately some of his organs stopped working like his kidneys. Since then he has been in the hospital where he underwent an extensive examination, to see if there was the possibility of any change or improvement over the days. Unfortunately there were no changes that gave me hope of some improvement, his body was deteriorating rapidly and his vital organs began to stop working. His arms were swollen and his blood was no longer circulating. Only machines could keep him alive and if a miracle happened he would live like a vegetable due to the lack of brain activity. Doctors gave him little chance of life. And I know with the deepest of my heart that my father would not have wanted to live like this. I had to make the biggest and most painful decision to disconnect my Dad so that he could rest in Peace. You are never prepared to say bye to a man who was so happy, healthy, full of life and hardworking, you’re never prepared for such of great loss. A father a friend who never said NO to anyone who never complained about the life God chose for him. Given the covid19 situation, visitors or family members were not allowed to enter at the time this decision was made, I know that my dad was very loved by his friends, family and work colleagues and musicians friends and how he loved to play his trumpet. It is for this reason that I want to be able to say my last goodbye since I was his only daughter, to give my Dad the Memorial he deserves, to give my family, his friends and grandchildren’s, the opportunity as well. But I need help paying for the funeral expenses that are estimated at $ 5,000. I would never forgive myself for not being able to give my Father a well deserved Funeral or at least trying to do so with your help. It does not matter how large the amount is, everything will be well received and appreciated. May God multiplies your help. Always hold your loved ones always tell them how much you love them because today it is my turn but tomorrow may surprise another person. God bless you.
Organisator
Aileen Ramos
Organisator
North Smithfield, RI