Help with funeral/kids

On October 9th I got just about the worst phone anyone could ask for ! My husband had been in a car wreck and I need to meet him at the hospital . I met him there for a hour or so late to tell me he didn’t make it.. Reshaud was the brightest person . He would make anyone smile but also had his days ! But who don’t .! He left behind 2 precious boys that I will never turn or leave . They will always know how kind of a man he was and how wonderful he was ! I hate to do this but I want him to have the perfect funeral ! I want him to know how special he is !! I want kids not to worry and know that we came together For their daddy!  I need help ! Please ! Reshaud will always know how much me and his kids love him as well as he loved us ! Every little bit helps ! Even if you share ! Please