Battling Dad's Cancer Effects

I'm raising funds for my daughter, Alora Fish. Special Special Funds. You see, that was her nickname for her dad, my Special Special Super Daddy, whom we'll never be able to replace. No. A thief called Stage 4 Prostate Cancer that spread to his bladder then at his end into the abdomen took her dad, losing a heroic battle in December 2024.

Even though we divorced in 2023 we became friends again and no matter what with our children each others back we shall always have. So I'm not going to let cancer win the war by her not attending college to avoid her losing the 6 year-old house, his Lady Bird deed left to our then 17 but now 18-year-old daughter

I started a DBA HRFish Artisan Child Fund not only to remember a really good man but an even better father and hearing his estates sole representative (our daughter) ask what will happen when his final paycheck the original way his estate bank account was started what will happen when estate account runs low. So this is how I tried to teach a Fish to fish....create things to sell first of all your'e a gifted clay sculpter and reach out for help.

Her dad was a college instructor for almost 50 years...he ended up earning 6 figures with social security added to his wages. Not enough time in the day for me this once long time house wife who has so many ends here to organize.... and a freshly graduated kiddo to earn what he did.

Dec 6th her dad returned from his oncologist with a disability form he had hoped that once turned into Kalamazoo Valley Community College a semester of paid leave off would help fight the cancer better.

However, that errand his very last one had him return whooped needing to pull his Mr. T Tesla over for he had started blacking out. Not knowing his true fate as he layed on his bed and going to see how he was staggering from our entry way his words were this.." I'm sorry Alora I'm Sorry Flint I tried." He then added he didn't know if he'd make it..Rested he said he didn't eat or drink enough so his joy picking the kids up relieving them of a longer bus ride home I was allowed to take over that day. Wanting him to be Special as he was to her I bought him flowers pink ones for Alora was once crazy for pink as a much younger her.Much like maybe young girls you out there know in this moment.

And so the flowers, her and I went to the Byron Center U of M hospital 5 hours after an ambulance took him away from Woodland House.

It's our name for the home, a house built within woods 2019 and those pink flowers we did place within his hand.The Fowers stayed until he passed and I replaced with extras in my pocket so she has his life and death flowers encased within a plastic display box here.

Eventually, we departed the hospital five hours later on Dec 7th for it was just after midnight when cancer won his battle and those flowers he held I replaced with spare in my pocket.

Alora has the flowers her father held in life and then his death putting into art..Ferris is where she hopes to go for art and video game design so may she continue on her father's hope to own her home and still go college. Long live the spirit of a loving father in one HR Fish.

May just 1,158 one dollar subscribers to her-your Special Special a month ease biggest fear most of us have....to have a home.

My goal would be 1,158 monthly subscribers donating $1.00 that would be a house payment of hers made...less weight on her and me if ever something took me away at least that'd be home together in a house I picked designs etc for my kiddos.