Cost of Funeral for my mother

On December 11th 2013 my father William Lynn Lallement Jr. (74) passed away from respiratory failure. He had no insurance so I had to pay for his Funeral out of my own pocket at a cost of $5100.00. My father and mother were married for 49 years and now after 2 months almost to the day my Mother Toni Michele Lallement (67) has passed away on Saturday February 8th, 2014 from congestive lung disorder. She also had no insurance so again after two months I have to pay $5100.00 to cover the cost of her funeral. My bank account is strapped, so now I am turning to friends and family for help in raising enough money to split the cost of these two unforeseen deaths of both my parents in a short time. I have never done anything like this before because I have always been able to make it on my own. My pride is that if I can't do it on my own I don't need it, but I can't this time because my parents need help to pay for their final resting spot. Thank you very any assistance you can help us with.