Baby Alayzia's cremation
Ok, so here's our story... First of all, I have never been on this site. So I don't know if it will work or if people will donate. But its worth a shot. My sister and I are glued to the hip. She's my other half, and I consider this baby my own. We lost our child (my niece) at birth... My sister went 40 weeks pregnant and had her water brake.. So we went to the hospital thinking everything would be all good, and we would be able to bring our beautiful baby girl home... That was not the case.... The doctors spent a whole hour trying to find the heart beat.... Or what I thought was them trying to see the position of our baby girl..... After an hour of contractions and searching around. They tell us that there is no liquid going to babies heart.... We didn't understand.. So they showed us.. This happened at 3am... Then finally at 9:47am and a whole heck of struggle.. They managed to get baby out..... As she comes out I can see her skin.. Looks like it had peeled and parts of her skin was beat red... (Where skin fell off) .. They told us by the looks of it she had been gone for a couple days :( ..... We have never been so devastated... I have never seen a child like that or even lost someone that I was close with.... They said that gestational diabetes is a leading cause for still births.... So with that being said. Our family is very low income and are trying to raise enough money to buy a urn for our baby girl and some jewelry to hold her close to us forever.. I don't know if this site will work. But all I know is we have a year to come up with the money to bring our baby girl home... Or the funeral home will bury her ashes in the garden... We just want to bring our baby girl home soon.
We have definitely raised more then we ever could have imagined!! Words can not even begin to describe how thankful and blessed we are. But I have been encouraged more than once to keep up our post. Because apparently.. (I've been told) that even more people still want to donate... Even though we've made our goal.. I feel like this is too much..... But still, god bless everyone for wanting to donate extra to our family. We can seriously use all the help and support we can get. So please! Continue to share this post! Post it in other groups! Etc! I will be either taking the post down Sunday or Monday.
Erin Laing ... We would've loved that. But she got cremated today. Thank you for the kind offer!! :( Thank you to everyone who donated and shared!! Anything helped!!! this is such a blessing, and for you guys to continue to donate after we reached our goal, and continue to share ❤ it's just so amazing. Thank you to all and god bless you all! We will be able to bring baby girl home sooner then we could have ever imagined and keep her close to heart ! ❤ thank you so muuuch!! Words cannot describe how much this means to my family and my sister. ❤❤❤
This breaks my heart. When my faugh had her daughter who was born asleep. There are funeral homes that do Infant and babies funeral for free. Thank God because no one expects to have yo bury an infant. Don't know what State this is but worth checking it out. Prayers to your family
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The exact same thing happened to me. I'm so sorry, I'll be praying for you.
I went through something similar in 2012 with my first baby boy. If she or you EVER need to reach out to somebody that understands, please message me anytime! Sending healing prayers and my deepest condolences. The pictures bring back so many memories, so heartbreaking!