Help me cut the ties & divorce
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I am a healthy woman and with a beautiful, healthy child. We have a little roof above our heads and we have things money cant buy... an endless amount of love.
One thing i do not have money for on the other hand is a divorce, and this is something i so desperatly seek.
Let me give you some history;
I was 17 when i first met my him and from that age onwards he chased me, I knew what he was like with his womanising and i was always safe to never fall for him so for years we played a game of cat and mouse and on the occasion i would let him catch me.
Speed up to being 23, a single mother to a year an a half year old and he drops back into my life again and tells me he has been in love with me since i was 17 and i fell for him and everything he said hook, line and sinker. His divorced finalised one January, by the May he had asked me to marry him and by July time we were married. I thought that my life was complete and i was the happiest i had ever been. 8 weeks later after we married he cheated for the first time. Since then i have no idea of how many exactly.
His ex wife warned me off of him, telling me he was a narsassist but i didnt listen. I thought she was bitter and crazy like he had calimed for years. Now i know it was true.
I worked alongside my husband in his tattoo studio, i thought because he loved spending the time with me. Now i know it was to keep an eye on me always.
He controlled all money, always stating if i needed or wanted anything to ask for it to which i did and i was treated like a princess. He always bought me something when he had done something wrong. Now i know he controlled it all because then i was dependent on him fully.
I was always urged not to speak to friends or to have them because the girls would interfere and the boys all would want to sleep with me.
I would go into competitions to have my tattoos judged, having panic attacks before hand sometimes but if i posted a picture of my tattoos in underwear on my instagram page i was a slut.
Always being told if i left no one would ever be able to look at me again because all they would see is his work.
Being told i was not worthy to carry his surname.
Being told i was crazy when i caught him out with lies, being told i was the problem in arguments and that it was all my fault. Apologising for getting upset at him after he had done something wrong.
Being told i was a stupid little girl for believing in happily ever afters and true love.
I have been used, emotionally abused, lied to and cheated on over the 17 months i have been married to him and have now been strong enough to leave and cut this toxic 10 year relationship out of my life forever. I am finally brave enough to seek the help of othes when i do not have the means to be able to fulfill this last part myself.
I aim to rasie enough money to divorce him as quickly as possible so to cut all ties with him and move positively forward with my life.
One thing i do not have money for on the other hand is a divorce, and this is something i so desperatly seek.
Let me give you some history;
I was 17 when i first met my him and from that age onwards he chased me, I knew what he was like with his womanising and i was always safe to never fall for him so for years we played a game of cat and mouse and on the occasion i would let him catch me.
Speed up to being 23, a single mother to a year an a half year old and he drops back into my life again and tells me he has been in love with me since i was 17 and i fell for him and everything he said hook, line and sinker. His divorced finalised one January, by the May he had asked me to marry him and by July time we were married. I thought that my life was complete and i was the happiest i had ever been. 8 weeks later after we married he cheated for the first time. Since then i have no idea of how many exactly.
His ex wife warned me off of him, telling me he was a narsassist but i didnt listen. I thought she was bitter and crazy like he had calimed for years. Now i know it was true.
I worked alongside my husband in his tattoo studio, i thought because he loved spending the time with me. Now i know it was to keep an eye on me always.
He controlled all money, always stating if i needed or wanted anything to ask for it to which i did and i was treated like a princess. He always bought me something when he had done something wrong. Now i know he controlled it all because then i was dependent on him fully.
I was always urged not to speak to friends or to have them because the girls would interfere and the boys all would want to sleep with me.
I would go into competitions to have my tattoos judged, having panic attacks before hand sometimes but if i posted a picture of my tattoos in underwear on my instagram page i was a slut.
Always being told if i left no one would ever be able to look at me again because all they would see is his work.
Being told i was not worthy to carry his surname.
Being told i was crazy when i caught him out with lies, being told i was the problem in arguments and that it was all my fault. Apologising for getting upset at him after he had done something wrong.
Being told i was a stupid little girl for believing in happily ever afters and true love.
I have been used, emotionally abused, lied to and cheated on over the 17 months i have been married to him and have now been strong enough to leave and cut this toxic 10 year relationship out of my life forever. I am finally brave enough to seek the help of othes when i do not have the means to be able to fulfill this last part myself.
I aim to rasie enough money to divorce him as quickly as possible so to cut all ties with him and move positively forward with my life.
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Jade Donaldson
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