Pixie ear reconstruction

Ear pointing was something I've wanted to do for as long as I can remember, but has without a doubt, turned into the biggest regret of my life.

I didn't go into this decision blindly, I researched the procedure and persons whom conveyed themselves as confident and skilled in such a procedure. After having multiple discussions and consultations with the 'artist', I was made to feel confident in his ability to perform this procedure, with the outcome being how I had always envisioned.

It was obvious from the start that the surgery performed on my ears, was not what I had originally asked for or what I had discussed with the 'artist', but was reassured by him that they would heal well and would become more pointed as the swelling went down and as time went on. I was assured the ongoing nerve pain I was experiencing post surgery was normal for the procedure I had undergone, and that it would quickly settle down following the surgery.

Unfortunately for me, this hasn't been the case, they have only gotten worse over the course of 3 years since the original procedure was performed. I am now struggling on a daily basis with the consequences of this poorly performed procedure. I experience constant pain, to the point where I can no longer sleep properly, and simple things like wearing my glasses for extended periods, or brushing my hair, results in crippling stabbing pains all through my ears.

I have had my ears professionally assessed by a reconstructive plastic surgeon recently, and have been told I have extensive nerve damage which is the primary cause for my ongoing pain. The procedure has left me with excessive scar tissue, melted & protruding ear cartilage, that without surgery will eventually rupture through my skin. So it is only a matter of time before surgery is required to prevent further damage.

I have been through a legal process to have the cost of my surgery covered by those involved with the procedure, having made an informed decision on the modification artist and the reputable studio who was hosting him, I had no reason to believe my original expectations would not be met, let alone that I be left with significant damage to my body. Sadly this legal avenue has failed to provide any real outcome for me as the artist and studio were found to be uninsured for any of the work he was conducting.

My surgeon has assured me that they can do something to correct some of the nerve damage that has been caused, but the reality is, that no amount of surgery will ever give me the outcome I’d originally hoped for, which I, in time will have to come to terms with and accept. I just want to lead a happy life, free of pain and move past this whole awful experience.

My reconstructive surgery costs amount to over $3,000. My hope in creating this account is to help collect enough funds to be able to have this surgery completed soon, as I have spent the last two years allowing what has now been a pointless legal process, delay anything.

I hope to correct my ears as best as the professionals are able to, trying to keep the points as much as possible, and hopefully undo some of the nerve damage that has been caused.
(The $3,000 limit should cover most of my surgery. But in the instance that I receive even a cent more, It will be donated to 'Beyond Blue' which is a charity that helps people suffering with mental illness and people contemplating suicide)


I guess I should also put in this disclaimer:
I am not wanting to start debate about the 'artist' in question, as at the time, I made the decision to go to him based upon recommendations from reputable sources. I have received enough internet hate and bullying over the appearance of my ears to last me a life time and wish for no further abuse. None of what I have written here was kept from the artist, as I was previously in contact with him about the injuries that resulted from the modification procedure he performed, and I received what I believe to be a heartfelt and honest apology for the ongoing pain and injuries he has caused me. The only reason I have created this account is to hopefully receive a bit of financial assistance from those closest to me, to be able to reconstruct my ears to rid myself of the daily pain associated and hopefully regain some self confidence that has been taken from me.

Thank you for reading my story.