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I came to United States in 1999 as an international student, after 8 years’ practice as a physician in China. I worked in Chinese Restaurant, in my graduate school, helped out a Jewish family to finish my study. After I got my graduate degree, I started to work in Loyola Medical Center as a clinical researcher, I met with my husband Paul O’Malley in 2001, we had a good life together, and there were ups and downs, just like other couples. Paul was a very health man until he was diagnosed Nasal Small Cell Carcinoma, stage IV. Paul was a private man, he didn’t want other people feel sorry for him, so we went through chemotherapy, radiation and immunotherapy without asking for any helps, we did appreciate greatly the regular visits from our pastor and church friends. Paul was doing ok until his condition got worse, finally he insisted to go home for his care, I hired a Mexican lady to take care of him during the days, so I could finish my big grant application. I was alone the night he died, that was the darkest moment in my life, and I felt that I was such a loser, no close friends in the crisis.
Now I think back, I was wrong, I am a giver, I have helped a lot of people, but I have a hard time to ask for help, so here I am. I have battled financial stress for over one year, a lot of my friends have helped me financially, I have sold my house, and used up all my savings, with God’s help, finally the institution has decided to release all the funds once I pay off $50K regulation fees, which I don’t have now. Your help will be greatly appreciated, please feel free to leave your email, phone number or wechat ID, so I can give back to you once I receive my money. Thank you very much for your help and support, the funds from the institution will be used to support people in need.
James 2:14-17 New International Version (NIV)
Faith and Deeds
14 What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? 15 Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. 16 If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? 17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.
1999年，我作为一名国际学生来到美国，在中国医生执业8年。我在中国餐馆，在我的研究生院工作，帮助一个犹太家庭完成了我的学业。获得研究生学位后，我开始在医疗中心担任临床研究员，2001年我和丈夫Paul O'Malley见面，我们共度美好生活，有起伏，就像其他夫妻一样。保罗是一个非常健康的人，直到他被诊断为小细胞鼻癌，第四期。保罗是一个很隐私的人，他不想让别人为他感到难过，所以我们经过化疗，放疗和免疫治疗而没有请求任何帮助，我们非常感谢牧师和教会朋友的定期拜访. 他做得还好，直到病情恶化，最后他坚持要回家治疗，我聘请了一位墨西哥女士来白天照顾他，所以我可以完成我的大基金申请。在他去世的那个晚上，我独自一人，那是我生命中最黑暗的一刻，我觉得我是一个失败者，在危机中没有亲密的朋友。
现在我回想起来，我错了，我是一个给予者，我帮助过很多人，但我很难开口寻求帮助，所以我在这里来请求。我已经与财务压力斗争了一年多，我的很多朋友在经济上帮助了我，我卖掉了我的房子，用尽了所有的积蓄，上帝的恩典，最后决定释放所有的资金，直到我支付罚款5万美元，我现在没有任何资金。您的帮助将不胜感激，请留下您的电子邮件，电话号码或微信ID，以便我收到我的款项后再归还您。非常感谢您的帮助和支持，资金将用于需要帮助的人。
雅各书 2:14-17 Chinese Contemporary Bible (Simplified) (CCB)
信心和行为
14 我的弟兄姊妹，如果有人自称有信心，却没有行为来证实，有什么用呢？这种信心能够救他吗？ 15 如果有弟兄姊妹缺衣少食， 16 你们只是对他们说：“安心走吧，愿你们穿得暖，吃得饱”，却不帮助他解决实际困难，这有什么用呢？ 17 因此，信心若没有行为，就是死的。
I came to United States in 1999 as an international student, after 8 years’ practice as a physician in China. I worked in Chinese Restaurant, in my graduate school, helped out a Jewish family to finish my study. After I got my graduate degree, I started to work in Loyola Medical Center as a clinical researcher, I met with my husband Paul O’Malley in 2001, we had a good life together, and there were ups and downs, just like other couples. Paul was a very health man until he was diagnosed Nasal Small Cell Carcinoma, stage IV. Paul was a private man, he didn’t want other people feel sorry for him, so we went through chemotherapy, radiation and immunotherapy without asking for any helps, we did appreciate greatly the regular visits from our pastor and church friends. Paul was doing ok until his condition got worse, finally he insisted to go home for his care, I hired a Mexican lady to take care of him during the days, so I could finish my big grant application. I was alone the night he died, that was the darkest moment in my life, and I felt that I was such a loser, no close friends in the crisis.
Now I think back, I was wrong, I am a giver, I have helped a lot of people, but I have a hard time to ask for help, so here I am. I have battled financial stress for over one year, a lot of my friends have helped me financially, I have sold my house, and used up all my savings, with God’s help, finally the institution has decided to release all the funds once I pay off $50K regulation fees, which I don’t have now. Your help will be greatly appreciated, please feel free to leave your email, phone number or wechat ID, so I can give back to you once I receive my money. Thank you very much for your help and support, the funds from the institution will be used to support people in need.
James 2:14-17 New International Version (NIV)
Faith and Deeds
14 What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? 15 Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. 16 If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? 17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.
1999年，我作为一名国际学生来到美国，在中国医生执业8年。我在中国餐馆，在我的研究生院工作，帮助一个犹太家庭完成了我的学业。获得研究生学位后，我开始在医疗中心担任临床研究员，2001年我和丈夫Paul O'Malley见面，我们共度美好生活，有起伏，就像其他夫妻一样。保罗是一个非常健康的人，直到他被诊断为小细胞鼻癌，第四期。保罗是一个很隐私的人，他不想让别人为他感到难过，所以我们经过化疗，放疗和免疫治疗而没有请求任何帮助，我们非常感谢牧师和教会朋友的定期拜访. 他做得还好，直到病情恶化，最后他坚持要回家治疗，我聘请了一位墨西哥女士来白天照顾他，所以我可以完成我的大基金申请。在他去世的那个晚上，我独自一人，那是我生命中最黑暗的一刻，我觉得我是一个失败者，在危机中没有亲密的朋友。
现在我回想起来，我错了，我是一个给予者，我帮助过很多人，但我很难开口寻求帮助，所以我在这里来请求。我已经与财务压力斗争了一年多，我的很多朋友在经济上帮助了我，我卖掉了我的房子，用尽了所有的积蓄，上帝的恩典，最后决定释放所有的资金，直到我支付罚款5万美元，我现在没有任何资金。您的帮助将不胜感激，请留下您的电子邮件，电话号码或微信ID，以便我收到我的款项后再归还您。非常感谢您的帮助和支持，资金将用于需要帮助的人。
雅各书 2:14-17 Chinese Contemporary Bible (Simplified) (CCB)
信心和行为
14 我的弟兄姊妹，如果有人自称有信心，却没有行为来证实，有什么用呢？这种信心能够救他吗？ 15 如果有弟兄姊妹缺衣少食， 16 你们只是对他们说：“安心走吧，愿你们穿得暖，吃得饱”，却不帮助他解决实际困难，这有什么用呢？ 17 因此，信心若没有行为，就是死的。
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