Jeff's Crohns Support & Help

$2,111 of $10k goal

Raised by 44 people in 1 month
Diana Miller Wise
on behalf of Jeffrey Wise
 CALABASH, NC
Hi, this is Jeff and I'm Jeff's Mom.  Jeff is a very sick young man that needs lots of support and love.  As his Mom I am trying so hard to care for him and give him what he needs.  But now, it's become the most difficult thing that I've ever been challenged to do.  Jeff has been sick now for most of his lifetime. When he was just eight years old another child damaged his eye leaving him blind in the right eye. He was diagnosed with  Hodgkin's Lymphoma at the age of 21, and then after going into remission he started having countless battles with abdominal issues, resulting in several surgeries and then being diagnosed with Crohns.   Crohns has been the biggest battle yet.  He has suffered with  Crohns for years and has not been able to take the medicine that controls Crohns because it would increase his chances of having cancer once again.
Therefore, he went several years without medicines to control it.  Now, the situation is dire.  He has been in and out of hospitals the last few years and just this year he has been hospitalized six times since July of 2016.  The Crohns started attacking his body with abscesses  that caused a tailbone infection  that will not heal.  He has been on 10 weeks of IV antibiotics and now he has a 24 hour continuous antibiotic IV.  He also has a drain in his rectum (sorry, is this is too much info) that keeps further infection from occuring.  This is very, very painful.
He is in relentless pain all day and the only thing that can be done is to surgically remove the tailbone.  He also suffers from anxiety and depression, which kind of goes along with these illnesses.  
 
Once the infected bone is removed he will be put on biologics to help control the Crohns.  Biologics, which may or may not give him cancer, but he now has no option.  The doctors told him ..."you need to decide whether or not to live with cronic Crohns that's out of control, or take your chances on getting cancer."  Jeff has decided that he will take his chances with the biologics and the increased risk of cancer.

Right now his home care infusions, medicines and health care are costing thousands of dollars.  We also travel every week three hours there and three hours home to the Medical University of South Carolina, where he receives his care.  When we travel there I make the back seat into a bed with pillows and cushions to try and keep him comfortable as possible while making the trip.

Jeff isn't able to work and his Father and I have been his sole support.  We are both retired and it's getting harder to keep up with all of his medical costs and needs, but we do our best.

We are reaching out to everyone to help us pay for Jeff's medicines that are currently running around $800.00 per month.  The cost will increase when he starts the biologics.  The per injection cost will be anywhere from $1,200 to $2,500.  He will have to receive these injections for the rest of his life.  

As his Mom I can't begin to tell you how much he suffers daily.  His life has been taken away from him and he has been reduced to laying on his side in bed or on the sofa.  The drain and the tailbone infection is so painful that he cannot drive, he cannot go out to eat and he cannot do any of the things that he loves.

Jeff loves music and he is a computer "gamer."  He hasn't been able to sit in front of his computer for more than eight months.  He is also a computer specialists and hasn't been able to work from home.

Jeff's journey is going to be a long and rough one and this is why I am reaching out to ask for help.  We have always been a family that never asks for help but now his needs are beyond our capabilities.  

There is also the toll that Jeff's illness has taken on our family.  We are trying our best to support him and take care of him and we do this through the help and support of friends and family.  Our "new normal" in our home at this time is one of working hard to keep him comfortable and getting him the health care he needs.

We are so thankful to everyone who reads this and to everyone who says a prayer for Jeff and our family.
God Bless You.
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Update 4
Posted by Diana Miller Wise
16 days ago
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I have some good news on Jeff's progress. First of all, just let me say, Prayers Are Being Answered!!!
Jeff's last CT scan shows improvement and he will be starting on biologic injections just as soon as all bloodwork, training and preparations are made. We still do not know what the new medicines will cost but thanks to his supporters we have a starting point.
Thank you so much for your continued prayers and support. God Bless all of you!
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Update 3
Posted by Diana Miller Wise
26 days ago
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Jeff has doctors appointments and a CT scan scheduled this week, which now days seems like the new "normal," for our family. We are just plain tired but we will keep on looking for answers and putting our trust in his medical professionals. We have our faith and most of all, our support from all of you. Thank you over and over again!
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Update 2
Posted by Diana Miller Wise
29 days ago
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We are so amazed at all the support, love and prayers that have been sent to Jeff. In just eight days, supporters have helped us reach almost 1/4 th of our goal. So many of you have reached out to share Jeff's story and so many of you have sent love and kindness our way. Jeff has a very long and hard road ahead but with your help, it's going to be a little easier getting there. Thank you all so much.
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Update 1
Posted by Diana Miller Wise
1 month ago
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Jeff needs your support and as his Mom, I thank each and everyone of you that take the time to read his story and want to help.
Thank you all so very much.
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Cathleen Norris
26 days ago

Sissy I'm sorry for you, your husband and especially your son. No one young man should have to go thru this. I agree with the lady about disability social security, and Medicaid. I want to help how can I do that. I'm going to pray for him. I have kids his age twenties. Love and hugs, Godbless, Cathleen

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Patricia Henderson
1 month ago

I dont know if your son has applied for social security disability and medicaid but you should if you haven't. Its impossible to pay that much for the meds month after month. If you haven't talked to a socisl worker at the hospital yet you should just to see if any help is available

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Launna R Krivousov
1 month ago

I will most certainly pray for your son and your family... it's so sad that medication that can help him costs so much. I have shared your story with my Twitter followers and Google+ ... I hope you can raise the money you need xox

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$2,111 of $10k goal

Raised by 44 people in 1 month
Created January 14, 2017
Diana Miller Wise  
on behalf of Jeffrey Wise
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$30
Carole Schulman
12 days ago

I am in a similar battle with my son as well. I wish I could donate more, Diana. XXOO I will pray for Jeff constantly day after day as I do for my son. Much love.

KG
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Karen Groff
18 days ago
$25
Anonymous
23 days ago
$20
Anonymous
28 days ago
$5
Anonymous
29 days ago
JH
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JANE hEBERT
1 month ago

Just read about this on Nana's blog. Good luck and hope you get the treatment to help. Also, have you looked into food allergies and intolerances?

TW
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Tanza Williams
1 month ago

God bless Jeff and your family as your road on this continues. I pray for a peace and healing for him, for you ✨ I just saw this, and I hope this can help in a little way. I love you my friend. And friends that support friends, the BesT!!!! xo Tanza xo

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Michelle Miller-Friend
1 month ago
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Michelle Miller-Friend
1 month ago
KG
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Kay Guest
1 month ago

Saw this on Nana Diana's blog also. Praying for Jeff and all the family.

Cathleen Norris
26 days ago

Sissy I'm sorry for you, your husband and especially your son. No one young man should have to go thru this. I agree with the lady about disability social security, and Medicaid. I want to help how can I do that. I'm going to pray for him. I have kids his age twenties. Love and hugs, Godbless, Cathleen

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Patricia Henderson
1 month ago

I dont know if your son has applied for social security disability and medicaid but you should if you haven't. Its impossible to pay that much for the meds month after month. If you haven't talked to a socisl worker at the hospital yet you should just to see if any help is available

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Launna R Krivousov
1 month ago

I will most certainly pray for your son and your family... it's so sad that medication that can help him costs so much. I have shared your story with my Twitter followers and Google+ ... I hope you can raise the money you need xox

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