Life of Brian

$8,285 of $5,000 goal

Raised by 78 people in 56 months
My friend of 30 years, Brian Mulroy, was diagnosed with Membraneous Nephropathy last February. This is a kidney disease which has ultimately required him to be on a daily regimen of the chemotherapy drug cytoxan. While this drug is holding the disease at bay for now, there is a risk that he might ultimately need either dialysis or a kidney transplantinn the near future.  Since April he has been unable to work due to the effects of both the disease itself and the chemotherapy.

Brian has worked for his family’s business installing and servicing wood and gas stoves for over 25 years. He’s always been the very definition of a workaholic, doing whatever was necessary to get the job done. I’ve had numerous cell phone calls with him where he’s up on a roof in below freezing weather, well after dark and punch-out time, trying to resolve a problem for a customer. 50-60 hour work weeks are the norm for him during the busy season.  Not being able to work is driving him crazy.

Due to his lengthy absence, the business has had to move on without him and he now has no form of income whatsoever. He’s been living off his savings since his paychecks stopped, but now that is just as exhausted as he is. He lives alone in Massachusetts except for his dog and cat. He has an 18 year old son, James, who lives in Arizona and recently spent a few months with Brian splitting wood and getting him ready for the winter.

Brian is one of the most kind hearted and giving people I know. He’s the guy you call at midnight when you’re stuck at the airport or when your dog sitter shafts you ten minutes before you leave on a trip. I’m just one in a long line of people who can call him a true friend. The problem is many of his friends and family don’t know the extent of his situation. He rarely posts anything about it on social media and he’s not out and about much these days so he’s kind of out of sight, out of mind.

I’m reaching out to try and raise a bit of money for Brian to help meet his basic needs…food, fuel, housing, transportation, etc. Any little bit will help. He initially told me he wanted nothing to do with this campaign and didn’t want me to do this, but after a very long conversation with me he realized he’s out of options.

I realize we all know people who are down on their luck and could use a helping hand. I’m sharing Brian’s story in the hopes that maybe you can spare a few bucks to send his way. Maybe that $25 you’d spend going out to the movies this weekend would buy a couple meals for him or help pay an electric bill.

Last October, I put out a similar call for help for a homeless guy I met whose vehicle was broken down. My Facebook friends raised the $2200 he needed to fix his van and get him on his way. I think everyone who helped got far more in return, in terms of helping out their fellow man, for the few bucks that they sent in. I’m hoping we can recreate that magic for Brian and at least help him get through the winter.


Thank you one and all. Have a GREAT Christmas Season. Be Safe.
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Holy Cow! Only three days and we reached the goal. The response to this has been truly overwhelming and I thank each and every one of you for donating. Although we reached the initial goal I'm going to keep this up a while longer because, frankly, Brian could use all the help he can get. THANK YOU!!!
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Brian Mulroy
54 months ago
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I really want to thank everyone who helped me out here! The support has been humbling and overwhelming! I can't believe it's been a year since I first developed symptoms and knew something was "wrong". And what a year it's been! There is a light at the end of the tunnel as far as treatment goes ... and a bit more time to rebuild strength and a "normal" life ... but I'm so grateful for everything. Not everyone is so lucky. It makes me put so much more value on the little things in life that we often take for granted! We never know what life may throw at us ... it can change in an instant! Find something good in each day ... create some good each day! Hug your kids ... tell those you care about that you love them ... let go of anger, grudges and negativity. Keep a clean conscience and try to find peace! Life is too short as it is ... I feel blessed to have a "second chance" ... and I appreciate each and every one of you for helping me get there. Every time I spend any money - whether it's for a bill or groceries or anything at all ... I think of you and wish each and every one of you happiness and good health! Brian

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Kim Wimberly
55 months ago

Hey Tim, tell him to apply to social security disability, they may help him if he has no funds coming in, but I'm not really sure. I believe his job would've had to contribute into it. Good luck!

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Created December 12, 2014
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$100
Anonymous
38 months ago
$200
Anonymous
38 months ago
TH
$500
Tracey Harris-Bennett
38 months ago

To a very special person who could always make me laugh even at the most stupidest things. You're the best, my friend!

DR
$100
Dan Rand
54 months ago

EMR

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Anonymous
55 months ago
CA
$100
Cheryl & John Arner
55 months ago

Always look on the bright side of life!! Ba doo, ba doo!!! XO

SC
$100
Steve Caisse
55 months ago

This donation is from both myself (and the family) and Cheryl. Wishing you only the best this Christmas. Take care.

$500
Anonymous
55 months ago
$1,000
Anonymous
55 months ago
MA
$50
Maureen Allain
55 months ago

I was sad when I heard about your condition, but glad to hear you are doing better now. :-)

Brian Mulroy
54 months ago
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I really want to thank everyone who helped me out here! The support has been humbling and overwhelming! I can't believe it's been a year since I first developed symptoms and knew something was "wrong". And what a year it's been! There is a light at the end of the tunnel as far as treatment goes ... and a bit more time to rebuild strength and a "normal" life ... but I'm so grateful for everything. Not everyone is so lucky. It makes me put so much more value on the little things in life that we often take for granted! We never know what life may throw at us ... it can change in an instant! Find something good in each day ... create some good each day! Hug your kids ... tell those you care about that you love them ... let go of anger, grudges and negativity. Keep a clean conscience and try to find peace! Life is too short as it is ... I feel blessed to have a "second chance" ... and I appreciate each and every one of you for helping me get there. Every time I spend any money - whether it's for a bill or groceries or anything at all ... I think of you and wish each and every one of you happiness and good health! Brian

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Kim Wimberly
55 months ago

Hey Tim, tell him to apply to social security disability, they may help him if he has no funds coming in, but I'm not really sure. I believe his job would've had to contribute into it. Good luck!

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