❤️ in loving memory of Thomas

It’s crazy that recently I was the one helping a friend set up a go fund me for the same reason I am doing now. We all got the shock of our lives finding out the worse news that was beyond unexpected. Never in a million years did I think my parents would have to bury their son at only 28 years old, or we would lose a sibling. This is a pain that We can’t conquer and would have never thought in my life We would feel this kind of pain so early. I didn’t even want to do this because that means it’s real that my brother is gone and I’m not getting him back. We love you so much!!!!  All of this is so sudden and have never planned a funeral before in my family. It’s hard to even ask for help but we know we need to in order to give Thomas the proper memorial he deserves. If there’s anything that anyone can do for donations, please do it here and we are beyond grateful for the kind words and love we have received already and so appreciative of any help we can get. Please help us lay him to rest.  He has 4 step children that he considered his own and his youngest son Zayne. This is so hard to know my sister in law is going to be alone raising her children without their dad/step dad and we are never going to see our brother or my parents their son. 

Words cannot explain how much of a wonderful person Thomas Vilai was. He was very big hearted. Thomas would literally give the shirt off his back for anyone and go above and beyond to help those in need. (This is literally the code he lives by)  He was a loving son, father, brother, uncle, husband, and friend. Thomas was strong minded and family oriented. He is loved by everyone and made an impact on many of our lives. Though he's gone way too soon, never will he be forgotten. In our hearts forever and always. Thomas Vilai, may you watch over us and guide us all in the path you want for us. We love you.