Husband funeral expense

My children and I have lost the loves of our lives. He was such an amazing father and an amazing husband. He was a hard worker for our family and did everything in his power to love us unconditionally. We loved nature, family walks, going to Indian lake, or simply staying home making dinner and watching movies. Never in my life would I have thought I'd be widowed at 23 years old or have my children 4 and 2 grow up without there father. This was very sudden and I could use some help. I HATE TO ASK and I really hate to do this. But my HUSBAND and my children's FATHER deserves a proper and loving funeral.