Help Sia Find a Home & Kick Cancer

$14,580 of $20,000 goal

Raised by 230 people in 8 months
Dear friends of Sia,

As many of you know, my mother, Sia Sellu is a fighter. She spent her career fighting to help people in dangerous situations find safe housing for minimal pay, winning awards for her efforts as well as dedicating many hours of her free time to civil rights as well as environmental activism. For the past year and half, Sia has been fighting for her life against stage 4 metastatic breast cancer.  And for the past six months she’s been fighting for her sanity in an unsafe living situation which is significantly impacting her ability to focus on her cancer and heal.  The goal of this YouCaring is to help Sia financially move to a better place and supplement her income so she can focus her efforts and precious energy on the battle for her health.

My mom beat the odds as a struggling single parent, ensuring that I got everything I needed to succeed in life. But it didn’t stop there for my Mom, she volunteered thousands of hours helping other families and children have access to affordable housing, quality child care, livable neighborhoods, community gardens and better schools.  

Nomy Lamm, an acclaimed singer, writer, illustrator, and activist for the most pressing social justice issues of our time, whos's most recent work is illustrating "I'm Jay, Let's Play" a children's book about gender fluidity, said the following about Sia:

"I met Sia at a community garden installation several years ago, and she made an impression immediately. She was sweet and friendly and happy to get her hands dirty and support her friends and community members. Since then we have supported each other online through a number of life transitions. I value her and know that she deserves to get her needs met. I hope that our communities will show up to support her fundraiser and meet her goals." 

When I was little I said to my mom, “Mom, you’re a hero because you help people” I hope people will help my mom beat the odds. The life expectancy of a woman with metastatic disease is 2-5 years. Per the National Cancer Institute, African American women have poorer outcomes and earlier death.  I need and love my mom, and not to brag or anything but I think she makes the world a better place. Even now, with her cancer fight, friends still reach out to her for help, advice and laughter.  I tell her to take it easy and practice self-care, she can’t help herself.  Please help my mom, she’d do the same for you.

Kate Schatz, author of New York Times best selling children’s book series, Rad American Women and founder of Solidarity Sundays, a nation-wide network of feminist activism with more than 200 chapters worldwide said the following about my mom, Sia:

"Sia has devoted her life to helping, uplifting, and fighting for so many communities--from children to the homeless to Black and Brown victims of police brutality to the many women living with metastatic breast cancer. Her decades of service have impacted countless lives, and now it's time to help HER."

Disability covers my mom’s $1200/mo rent and electricity, but not much else and doesn’t qualify for Medicaid or food stamps. Supplementing her income will allow her to pay for food, health insurance exchange premiums and copays, car insurance, gas, bus passes, laundry, internet. etc. When her health improves, she plans to work with vocational rehabilitation to find work that she can do with her current limitations.

For someone who has dedicated so much of her life to helping the survival of others in need, this is a time when she needs friends, family and community to help her survive.

Please give what you can, and share so we can reach my mom, Sia’s initial goal in the next 30 days
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We are updating Sia’s GoFundMe. Since we started a lot has changed. Sia had hoped that she would be approved from her employer’s Long Tem Disability benefits whoch would have added to her monthly Social Security benefits by $500 per month. A year after applying, she was denied by Met Life which decided to go against her current oncologist’s assessment. Sia has also been diagnosed with Stage 3 severe hidradenitis suppurtiva, a rare and debilitating condition which resulted in open, painful, draining wounds all over her body. Unfortunately, due to her Stage IV cancer diagnosis she is ineligible for the traditional treatments for the condition and the condition has advanced beyond basic treatment. Sia must clean and bandage these wound daily with a myriad of overt the counter products. One of the recommended therapies in soaking in a bath with bleach a few times a week. In addition to her current apartment being substandard, there is no bathtub. A pro bono attorney was required to get hot water in the apartment this past summer. Due to the insane rental market, Sia hasn't had any options to find a new home.

We are trying to raise funds to help Sia pay for her basic needs, as her Social Security only covers her rent which has increased again. Sia is losing her desire to continue fighting her terminal diagnosis. The stress of managing her health conditions and her finances have caused her health to decline. She lost 64 pounds from stress alone in 9 months.

Please donate what you can, and if you have a connection with a landlord who would be willing to rent Sia a small studio or I bedroom with a bathtub, please let us know. We love her, and we want her to around as long as possible. If you know Sia, you know how much those hugs, that smile and those belly laughs give to all of us. Please help!

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A message from Sia: Hey everyone, thank you so much for the reposts and continued contributions. I am entering every low income housing lottery that comes up, because I am desperate to have my own place with A BATHTUB!!!! The idea being able to soak my achy joints and muscles is super exciting, especially as upcoming treatments will involve more painful bone and joint pain. Calgon and epsom salts will be taking me away. Also if you know any super wealthy landlords who are willing to rent below market rent in the Bay, let me know! I am willing make them monthly mac n cheese and any baked goods of their choice for the rest of my life. I would offer other things, but my friends say I can't offer sexual favors on the Internet. Bwahahahahahah!!! Again, thank you all so much. I really feel like there is a light at the end of a very dark tunnel.

Peace, Love and SOUL

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Thank you to all of you beautiful donors. This week Sia was able to pay her car registration, car insurance and several months of her premiums for the ACA health plan. Please call your senators and senators from other states to let them know how crucial this plan is for folks like Sia. This health plan allows Sia to receive treatment and care at UCSF's Helen Diller Breast Cancer Clinic, which is optimal for women with Stage 4 cancer.

Thank you all.
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Thank you everyone for all your support. We are almost 1/3 of the way there. One of our goals is to be able to offer a prospective landlord four months rent in advance to make up for Sia's income not being 2.5 times the rent.

Sia feels extremely Blessed and thankful for your generosity and good wishes.

-Sia's Magic Elves
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Zoraida Cruz
1 month ago

Hope you find all you need n finish ur fund ima in cal if u want to speak ur mother in law Zoraida Cruz 917 509 06 91

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$14,580 of $20,000 goal

Raised by 230 people in 8 months
Created June 9, 2017
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Terrie Henderson
2 months ago

Much love my sister Sia ❤️

Brenda Wood
2 months ago

What comes around goes around. Thank you for coming last night. You looked beautiful. Thanks for the support ♥

Jennifer Moe
2 months ago


Buck Blackmon
2 months ago

Hope this helps! Sorry I can't do more.

Zoraida Cruz
1 month ago

Hope you find all you need n finish ur fund ima in cal if u want to speak ur mother in law Zoraida Cruz 917 509 06 91

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