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Help my mother pay medical bills

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About Maria Ruiz, my mother was diagnosed on June 29th with DCIS and ILC. She has signed up for a Charity to attempt to pay for surgery, also both chemo therapy and radiation treatments but a lot of appointments are not covered like needle biopsy and breast MRI. As many of my friend's know medical bills are not cheap and none of us make enough to even slightly make a dent to cover for most of this. I will also be asking each of my siblings and friends to share a good vibe with my mother, comment give a memory that'll brighten the day of not only us, you as well. Sometimes there is so much negativity in this world and honestly in circumstances like these we should each share positive thoughts to help one another. Crap I understand life is difficult but let's work together to make this page great for all of us to remember the past.

(from our family Frank, Yisel, Christian and Daryl) 
I have never really done anything like this, none of us have. I have simply always been the one to feel like we must each work for our earnings. Working for a place in this world is obviously hard I can not deny how difficult I have seen some of my closest friends get so far in life by simply putting in the work to get somewhere in life. Whether it was being in the military, being in EMS or working their but off in retail to become a successful manager I have seen so much from just watching some of the most beautiful friends become so success. My older brother Christian Molina has become so successful in circumstances most difficult to explain, my brother Frank Molina working his butt off at streaming, working full time and raising a beautiful family. Even myself, I have yet to become successful but I fought for what I want by leaving to New York City and becoming an EMT all on my own has been a difficult long ride. One thing I can honestly say we don't have much say when it comes to illnesses. Being in the medical field shows me that and sometimes Illnesses come and take away people who truly mean so much to you. My mother has recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. With all of us struggling in our own areas, most of her kids far from her out of state, paying for some of these medical bills will be impossible. We hope that you come to understand the current circumstance is not a situational for any of us. I would have never wanted to do this but this is our cry for help. She's someone I can rely on emotionally, having someone to call whenever I can not bare my job or just tired of being home sick I became very fond of calling my mother. Sometimes there is a comfort in being able to talk to someone that has that understands you. 

Yisel-

Maria has come into my life after moving from New York and has made such an impact. She has been a role model since entering my life. She has helped me understand so much of being an adult and is so caring. Sometimes it is difficult to comprehend that she is going through this on her own when she was there for me for so long through all of my obstacles. I can not imagine what's on her mind when she has to sit and think about all these horrible things happening to her and all the things she's going to have to go through but at least she knows we are here with her through it all. I love Maria as if she was my mother, she definitely put her foot down for me as if she was. I can not imagine a world where she wasn't someone I could call for emotional support. Thank for everything you have done for us, please know we are here with you through all of this.

Daryl- I want to start with I picked the photo I did because honestly it shows how beautiful my mother is to the world. Ever seen the meme it is says " I wish someone loved me as much as this kid loves cake", continues by showing a kid staring at a birthday cake like there's no other cake in the world. Well, my mother looks at us as if there's no other cake in this world. She has made mistakes, I can not say she knows what she's doing because well who does? You know what's better than knowing what you're doing? Never stopping until you do.

Ma, I don't know where to start. I have had probably the most difficult relationship with you growing up, whether it was trying to understand how my life turned out this way. I legit never imagined being this way, where I can run into a horrible accident and see positive reasoning through out a horrible accident on a scene of an accident. I can find light in a closet closed with no windows. Our true relationship did not start when I was younger with being able to fully connect with you but I will tell you what, I totally connected with you when I was stuck in Tallahassee, crying that I was alone because a gf got me to visit her when she had a new bf already. When I sat at a bus stop after missing the bus because I was too concerned about seeing her one last time. You told me to stand up and wear my shoulders high to be strong that you were there with me. You bought me a new ticket after previously telling me I shouldn't have gone. You understood it was a mistake I needed to make on my own, you allowed me to fall out of a tree to fly on my own. 
You may not have realized it that day was the day I truly found out you loved me whether you showed it differently or not. I was honestly afraid and stranded that I missed the bus. Not only being humiliated miles away from home where I had comfort but stranded with fear I couldn't make it back. Ma, I have seen things as an EMT that I will never  unsee but the person you have made me, trust me there is nothing that I can see that'll make me waiver from being me. 
Thank you for being you after all these years, I can say I love you.

Christian-

Frank-

 Our family asks for help and I really hope people consider it. Any little bit helps. Thank you for your time and your consideration. Best,

Organizer and beneficiary

Daryl Leon Rolon
Organizer
Lake Wales, FL
maria ruiz
Beneficiary

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